What is wrong wid hmong people these dayz!!!!!!

kojtubpoomywj

sarNie Egg
on the contrary i do see that the hmong today are just corrupted but instead thinking and judging from what you've seen think deeply into the root for what might've causes it, for those who say "why hmong gotta have so much hmongpride?" according to what i've seen 98% of the hmong neither have pride or just dont care...to answer the question of why hmong gotta cause such bad reputation for the hmong? theres only one post in here so far that its actually similar to my point of view, think of a pet(dog?) without a friend(owner as some may want to call it) would know less of the world or obey to what's being told in compare to a pet with a friend, this i mean it all came from us not having country, without a country its hard to distinguish whats being right and wrong(like a pet again lack the teaching of his/her friend) causes bad reaction=bad reputation, therefore leads to embarrassement to the younger youth or the rest of hmong influence them to have non-pride(which is y hmoob tsis hlub hmoob)and finally leads them to look up to other race or hatred for there own kind -_- ...sorry im poor with word so yeah...thats the best i can explained
 

buckyann

sarNie Egg
I was seeing this one hmong girl on and off for like a year. To be honest I dont really know a lot about the culture/background. I usually hear weird stuff about them but... ya after I met her my thouhgts and thinking changed. A lot of hmongs are trying to change from their old ways but there are a lot of elders who likes to keep their tradition. Well, this girl would sneak out and make up stories in order to go out..because if her mum found out that she's around boys at night it would look bad? They automatically assumed you slept together??!!! @_@ So odd. Too bad it didnt work out between us...we're 'friends' but I havent talked to her for 2 months now... :| and from what i heard last she found 'the right boyfriend' now... i feel so used.. :spin:

anyways the point of my post is... hmongs are changing not a lot of them stick to their old ways... I.E kidnapping a girl because you want to marry her??? lol
 

Wai Wai Noodles

Egg Drop Soup ( ~ _ * )
Don't they know that Thai, Laos, Vietnamese, Chinese, and French hates us!
WOW!!! What a topic!

After reading your post, I do have a few questions / concerns:

Quote 1: LOL...where are your sources to justify the validity of such statement?

Lets not let one or a few bad apples ruin the whole basket shall we?

Also, I'd like to know the existence of an ethnicity/nationality that has NEVER DONE anything that brought shame to their own kind...

Can you name any?

We've all had our fair share of horrible individuals and they should be the one of many reasons that we should exceed beyond expectations and be or close to the ultimate best in the things we do as an individual...

americans will believe the races that gives us bad names n will be on their side..
Quote 2: LOL...there are Americans who thinks / acts with logical reasoning...

I would think and hope that they will at least seek for some valid truth / proofs before acting upon words of mouth...


This is why hmong pplz can't have a country of their own because it will be a mess up country.
Quote 3: You know, there are far more educated Hmoob out there than you think...

Them and other helpful non educated individuals are probably the ones who will help bring in the potential positive changes in Hmoob's community, whether in SE Asia or US.

"Action speaks louder than words"...instead of crying for justice and recognition for the community, why not start building up the "good" reputation / deeds that was "supposedly" taken away by "bad" Hmoobs.


I want to help the hmong pplz in laos but I see that soon or later, everyone will hate us so there is really no point of me helping.
Quote 4 : Helping is helping, you should not discriminate like that...

Sure, one person and their two hands might not make a difference and I'm not sure myself if many will change the outcome either...

But, you'll never know until you've actually tried. Baby steps will sooner or later amount to something that you and or many others might be proud to be a part of...

It's probably best that the individual also grows / matures with knowledge from within and surroundings before approaching bigger and far more complex things such as the community or perhaps, a country...


now there are a very very small minority of hmong that i'm proud of and i think the rest should follow their lead.. chor lacy, and pa... these three are highly educated...
Natty, I'd like to add Bao aka Bugsy to the list. ^_^


what's wrong with PEOPLE these days?! x_x
LOLOLOL!!!

I'm not too sure yet, but I'm fixing to find out... :lol:


ERRRRRRRRRR...Pa, Pa, Pa! Hahaha! It's ok! I've read and understood your chain of thoughts :p

No need to bang that thinking head of yours ^_^
 

dubthiabdawb

sarNie Egg
lol...sry, i just think this topic is funny...i tried to stay away but i couldn't...lol...i'm one of those hmong "haters"...you can say...ever heard of the phrase "hmoob tsis hlub hmoob, leej twg thiaj li yuav hlub hmoob"?...i'm one of those people that will say..."screw hmong ppl"...ppl will ask me what/who hmongs are and i'll say...hmong ppl are nobodies...wanna know why?...because that's what/who they are...they're nobodies...compared to other minorities hmong is very small population and no one knows or cares about them...only reason this topic is up is because hmong ppl brought it up...white ppl don't care what hmong ppl do...white ppl don't care if hmong ppl kill their families or not...white ppl don't even know that hmong ppl exist!!!...yes, it's true...now go have yourself a good cry because you don't exist to the white folks...i go to an all "white" school and more than half of the white ppl here on campus has never heard of the word "hmong" before...see, that's how much hmong ppl mean to white folks...i'll repeat myself, now, go get yourself a tissue and have a good cry...because white ppl don't care about you...lol...dude, this is how society works...get over it...HMONGS ARE NOT ALL THAT!...the world DOES NOT revolve around hmong ppl!...awwwwwwww...i didn't burst anyone's fantasy bubble with that comment, did i?...lol

as for the laotians and thais hating hmongs...lol...now, that statement is just gonna get you in trouble...haha...you can't just lump one whole group into being haters...let's invite the laotians and thais here in SW to come and join in our little party, shall we?...let's see what they have to say about that comment...and you can't blame them for hating the hmongs...i hate them myself...what if things were the other way around?...what if it were the laotians or thais who are invading hmong land?...what would happen then?...oh, i know...hmong ppl would be oh, so loving and just invite them in with open arms, right?...they would just give up part of their land and resources to the laotians and thais...because that's just how hmong ppl are...hmong ppl are so loving...(and if you didn't catch that...i was being sarcastic)...lol...hmongs are always whining about how the world population is hating and dissing on hmongs...it's getting so pathetic it's not even amusing anymore... <_< ...like a bad joke that keeps on getting repeated and just gets annoying and you just wanna kill the next person that tells the same joke
it seems u fall so behind from adolescent stage(tho im sure ur older) -_- i dont normally tolerate wit people like u but i guess i'll take the chance this time

white ppl don't care if hmong ppl kill their families or not...white ppl don't even know that hmong ppl exist!!!...yes, it's true.
for this reason

hmong ppl talk crap about them...putting them down...dude, hmong ppl don't know them...they don't have the right to put someone down because of their skin color or their racial background...and you all say hmong ppl are the greatest human beings ever...i say, just shove it...i'm not about to let some stupid hmong ppl who are freakin close minded put my friends down
why do u care about some1 who doesnt kare about u?

i'll repeat myself...i do hate hmongs...and i'm not going to hide that fact...as for my reasons for hating them...i'm not about to share them except for the fact that they're a bunch of idiots who think they're so high and mighty just because they're hmong...always whine whine whine...and it's always about them them them...like everyone should cater to them because they are hmong...and we all know hmongs are the greatest human beings to ever grace this earth, right?...yeah yeah...whatever...and the fact that i can read, write, and speak hmong...that's got nothing to do with my hate...and it doesn't mean that i have "hmong" pride and think i'm above everyone like the rest of the hmong population...the way you hmong ppl talk...you think you're all that and everyone should please you no matter what...you seem to think you're so great and when things don't go your way you whine about it...like a freakin spoiled brat...dude, GET REAL!!!...hmong ppl think everyone's hating on them and dissing on them when they are oh so innocent...what a bunch of BS!...take a look around you...your parents...your grandparents...your aunts...your uncles...your whole freakin family and your friends...they all talk crap about white ppl and other minorites more than the white or the minorities talk crap about hmong...as i've stated before...whites and other minorities don't even know that hmongs exist!...they don't give a crap about hmongs...almost all my friends are either white or minorities and everywhere i go...hmong ppl talk crap about them...putting them down...dude, hmong ppl don't know them...they don't have the right to put someone down because of their skin color or their racial background...and you all say hmong ppl are the greatest human beings ever...i say, just shove it...i'm not about to let some stupid hmong ppl who are freakin close minded put my friends down
isn't that what ur doing rite now? whine whine whine -_- %99.99 of wat u post refering back to urself y blame other hmong for it?

it's like banging my head against a wall
seems liek u been doing that :rolleyes:
 

Wai Wai Noodles

Egg Drop Soup ( ~ _ * )
so many dumb post in here -_-
I wouldnt necessarily consider it "dumb"...it's jus another person's perspective ;)

Plus, I think it's quite interesting to read about the thoughts that rambles in their heads.

They have their logics and we have ours ; it's just the way it's being presented that makes readers agree or disagree with what they have to share.
 

yellow_king

sarNie Egg
i think ppl are totally missing my point here...it's like banging my head against a wall...either i'm not clear enough or ppl are really dense around here...i have my opinion about whether it's the former or the latter...but i'll refrain from stating it....

go hang yourself...its a win win stituation....you make me happy and you make yourself happy...dont make me explain :p

I wouldnt necessarily consider it "dumb"...it's jus another person's perspective ;)

Plus, I think it's quite interesting to read about the thoughts that rambles in their heads.

They have their logics and we have ours ; it's just the way it's being presented that makes readers agree or disagree with what they have to share.
i agree with you....but i thought this was a place we all share...not hate on eachother....so come with an open mind or dont come at all...shall we continue with our lives and not focus on other people who just want attention...
 

babeyelmo

sarNie Hatchling
not all hmong are like that
and it is true
but u don't know the other side of the story
like does white talkl about other people like that too?
what about blacks? u live with hmong that why u hear those stuff
but yeah i just think u havn't heard the other side
not sure lol
 

dubthiabdawb

sarNie Egg
I wouldnt necessarily consider it "dumb"...it's jus another person's perspective ;)

Plus, I think it's quite interesting to read about the thoughts that rambles in their heads.

They have their logics and we have ours ; it's just the way it's being presented that makes readers agree or disagree with what they have to share.
you're right i should've be more open minded i agreed with you there i was being a little harsh :arrg: :blush:
 

Vic*Town

sarNie Egg
i understand ur point of view. i know we hmong has suffer so much, so why are we still adding more troubles for our people? why can't we love each other, prove ourselves beyond what we can do other than sitting around and stir troubles. i see that if we keep making bad names of ourselves in the future, many other ethnic groups might not even like us, especially the Americans. No offense to anyone.
 

mmm0403

sarNie Juvenile
i don't like today's hmong women, especially women over 30s. they are suppose to be role models for the younger generations, but instead, they have to start committing adultery, having affairs, lying to their spouse, murdering spouses, partying, dancing with other guys when they already have a husband, run away with another man, going to the casino, and don't care about their children whom they bring home etc...

i'm a hmong woman myself, and i find those actions very disgusting.
 

mayo

sarNie Egg
hi as you all know, I am mad at the Hmong community/ people who are causing all these stupid shits to make hmong ppls have bad names. Why are Hmong pplz doing this to Hmong pplz. Yes all of yous will not care and say that it's them but!!!! it reflects on all of us at the end!!! Like the gangsterz, killing each other every year, couples cheating and killing each other and go haunting n do some stupid stuff to get in trouble. I know that in the future, everyone will hate us because I am sure that pplz other than Hmong in MN and Cali hates Hmong pplz already for the stupid shits that are happening in the hmong community. I don't get these hmong pplz. Don't they know that Thai, Laos, Vietnamese, Chinese, and French hates us! They don't even like us that is why they try to kill us but hmong pplz are soo stupid that americans will want to kill us in the future!!! Instead of helping each other and give us a good name, hmong pplz gives us a horrible name and americans will believe the races that gives us bad names n will be on their side. This is why hmong pplz can't have a country of their own because it will be a mess up country. I want to help the hmong pplz in laos but I see that soon or later, everyone will hate us so there is really no point of me helping. they might even try to kill me. Sorry if i offended anyone. It's just that when you think of all these hmong problems, the hmong pplz who fought for all of us to have this kind of lifestyle during the vietnam and secret war deserve to live in it and not the ones who are killing our hmong name now! There were soo many hmong pplz who died for our freedom and we should make everyday count but there are some who hates being hmong, believes in something else but hmong's traditional beliefs, and etc.

Sooo... what do you guys think????

it doesnt just happen within the hmong community. it happens everywhere... you only hear about it happening to the hmong peeps bacuase u are hmong and you hear alotta things about your own culture. plus, why be so pessimistic? you only hear about the wrong doings of hmongs because u guys dont acknowledge the good that happens within this community too. be positive!
 

mmm0403

sarNie Juvenile
it doesnt just happen within the hmong community. it happens everywhere... you only hear about it happening to the hmong peeps bacuase u are hmong and you hear alotta things about your own culture. plus, why be so pessimistic? you only hear about the wrong doings of hmongs because u guys dont acknowledge the good that happens within this community too. be positive!
i absolutely agree with you. we hear so many bad things within the hmong community because we live in it. we are it. it won't change if we were Koreans, Thais, Chinese, or other races. People are people.
 

Matthew

sarNie Egg
hi as you all know, I am mad at the Hmong community/ people who are causing all these stupid shits to make hmong ppls have bad names. Why are Hmong pplz doing this to Hmong pplz. Yes all of yous will not care and say that it's them but!!!! it reflects on all of us at the end!!! Like the gangsterz, killing each other every year, couples cheating and killing each other and go haunting n do some stupid stuff to get in trouble. I know that in the future, everyone will hate us because I am sure that pplz other than Hmong in MN and Cali hates Hmong pplz already for the stupid shits that are happening in the hmong community. I don't get these hmong pplz. Don't they know that Thai, Laos, Vietnamese, Chinese, and French hates us! They don't even like us that is why they try to kill us but hmong pplz are soo stupid that americans will want to kill us in the future!!! Instead of helping each other and give us a good name, hmong pplz gives us a horrible name and americans will believe the races that gives us bad names n will be on their side. This is why hmong pplz can't have a country of their own because it will be a mess up country. I want to help the hmong pplz in laos but I see that soon or later, everyone will hate us so there is really no point of me helping. they might even try to kill me. Sorry if i offended anyone. It's just that when you think of all these hmong problems, the hmong pplz who fought for all of us to have this kind of lifestyle during the vietnam and secret war deserve to live in it and not the ones who are killing our hmong name now! There were soo many hmong pplz who died for our freedom and we should make everyday count but there are some who hates being hmong, believes in something else but hmong's traditional beliefs, and etc.

Sooo... what do you guys think????
 

Matthew

sarNie Egg
it doesnt just happen within the hmong community. it happens everywhere... you only hear about it happening to the hmong peeps bacuase u are hmong and you hear alotta things about your own culture. plus, why be so pessimistic? you only hear about the wrong doings of hmongs because u guys dont acknowledge the good that happens within this community too. be positive!
hi as you all know, I am mad at the Hmong community/ people who are causing all these stupid shits to make hmong ppls have bad names. Why are Hmong pplz doing this to Hmong pplz. Yes all of yous will not care and say that it's them but!!!! it reflects on all of us at the end!!! Like the gangsterz, killing each other every year, couples cheating and killing each other and go haunting n do some stupid stuff to get in trouble. I know that in the future, everyone will hate us because I am sure that pplz other than Hmong in MN and Cali hates Hmong pplz already for the stupid shits that are happening in the hmong community. I don't get these hmong pplz. Don't they know that Thai, Laos, Vietnamese, Chinese, and French hates us! They don't even like us that is why they try to kill us but hmong pplz are soo stupid that americans will want to kill us in the future!!! Instead of helping each other and give us a good name, hmong pplz gives us a horrible name and americans will believe the races that gives us bad names n will be on their side. This is why hmong pplz can't have a country of their own because it will be a mess up country. I want to help the hmong pplz in laos but I see that soon or later, everyone will hate us so there is really no point of me helping. they might even try to kill me. Sorry if i offended anyone. It's just that when you think of all these hmong problems, the hmong pplz who fought for all of us to have this kind of lifestyle during the vietnam and secret war deserve to live in it and not the ones who are killing our hmong name now! There were soo many hmong pplz who died for our freedom and we should make everyday count but there are some who hates being hmong, believes in something else but hmong's traditional beliefs, and etc.

Sooo... what do you guys think????
I have to agree with you. Hmong people are rude, violent, disgusting, sneaky, perverted animals! I don’t know how we were brought up like this but it needs to fucking stop. hmong people love holding grudges and love to gossip. Not only that, Hmong people just love to take revenge. I remember when I was younger my Dad was a fucking disgusting pervert. He is a selfish illiterate dog. Even though he didn’t know much, he always talk like he was a big dog. He had the education of a first grader. What makes him think he knew so much? It was ego. We need God in our lives. There’s also this guy named Jania Xiong. That dude thinks he’s so bright, but hes got his head so far up his ass. He thinks he’s a movement to the world. How can you be movement, when your broke ass fuck and don’t even know how to run a business. That loser is so intimidated by good looking male models that he intentionally tries to Sabbtage Peoples lives. Your not God but just a fucking broke ass bum. if The Americans could, im sure they would erraticate The Hmong like the blacks. Blacks are bad but we’re not to far from them. I hate fucking Hmong people. Every time I deal with Hmong people, I just feel like taking a hot shower becaus of all the negative and disgusting energy they bring with them.
 
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