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girlll.....did you even read ANYTHING before posting this up? Yea yea yea....alot of the hmong community has to do with repuations and for some families.....thats what its ALL about. But dude...thats only the stupid people. Im sorry to say.....but quite whining already. I've been surrounded by people who whine all the time about "o...hmong people only care about saving face....blah blah blah" ......and all i gotta say is...."yaw they do. Durr....we're asians" And why people gotta think sooo negative about the whole ethnicity if only a couple examples goes bad? Lets see....the WHOLE asian community values morals/values and reputation alot so its not just us. And meeka people? Yall think meeka people are soooooo all up in here being lenient but you know what? They got their own system too. It's called social class. Dividing people up by wealth and money. It's ALL about social status. So stop whining already cause dammit! Every god damn culture out there has their own flaws. ERRRRR.....excuse me....Im writing outta anger. The world's currupt and so are we. And if you've got any sense in you....please......some very nice people have already posted up some very logical and damn good comments on us and our parents.....so follow them.ntxais_hmoob_thoj said:Hmong Parents are Strict because all the Hmong care about is Saving-Face!
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I hate when people start hating up on their parents. I mean.....yawww....im only human too....so i do it too. But im not ignorant. I know they come from a different lifestyle and all that good stuff i dont wanna rewrite here and if you think about it, most of our parents, great grandparents and just plain ancestors got married when they were like...what? ....14? 15?16? Now who's gonna have any sense of life at that age while raising bunches of kids? Of course it was hard for them to grow up and especialy with the war and moving to the U.S.
Okaky.....no more talking....me getting tense...lol
All i gotta say is.....dont be sooo selfish and at least try to understand them too. I mean....yaww.....there's some real evil parents out there....but like the others said.....move out or get them to change. Evil parents probably had evil parents too....so just take a chance and try to get to know them. If all else fails....you always have the option of what kind of parent YOU'RE gonna be and from there....you can make change happen.