Its stupid how men get to eat first at the parties and women have to eat at the end, seeems like we get the leftovers then we have to clean everything up after they drink and eat and talk...UGH!. Thats pathetic, dont that happen in a lot of azn cultures? Maybe its just me cuz i have a pathetic father. Plus the men get to do what they want, marry agian, divorce, cheat, and lie. You know, my dad a pathetic person, if he does something stupid, we all get named bad like him. Then OGS go around and say its all my mothers fault for not talking to him and stopping him or whatever. Men always get in of trouble and then we have to get them out. Thats even more pathetic. But I think us new generation can change what has been happening in the before generation. Because like everyone said, both genders are begining to become equal and like i always say, this aint thailand or laos or whereever, this is America and this is our generation, we can change whats bad and make them into good, but hopefully we dont repeat the bad. I know some think that we should keep our tradition alive, but can't we change somethings? Like rukmos I dont really listen to my parents 100 % neither nor always cleaning and working around the house. People are always saying, dont waste ur childhood or teenage years, or whatever they say, but its hard, because usually the girl's rights are limited and its pretty hard. Well anyway, this is just my opinion. Maybe it doesnt make sense, but thanks for reading.