My husband's girl cousin, who is 20 came and asked SL and me a question - what if your best friend, who you have helped so much, like seriously, so much as in getting him a degree in college, out of the blues and randomly said "how do you feel if I started to date a girl." She said she was hurt when he asked her that and after he heard her reply he said, "he wanted to see if she was gonna reply like what he was thinking she would reply" she has been angry for 2 days and doesnt want to talk to him anymore.
My response to her was to ask him for the truth if he is really considering a girl. My husband on the other hand, straight forward with his words said that he was a *beep* and he yelled at her because all the homework we been helping her with was for him. As a sister in law I would tell her the truth, but I dont know how because every couple/friendship is very different. I mean, he is a great guy and he seems to care for her alot but I really dont know how they are outside of the house. She described her friendship to me several times and in my opinion, I just think this guy has alot of love to give, to everyone and anybody who is nice and caring towards him.
Eeeek! I dont want to start anything and not even married for a year yet, and I am approached with this! I dont know how to tell or say anything to her, because my hubby and I went up and down with our relationship - from friends, to lovers, to friends, and back... Any pointers... Just something I can work into her brain, I dont want to bash on the guy either because he drank at the table on our wedding... lol... he is just a great guy... I feel sorry for her but I dont even know his side of the story and it would be odd to talk to him without her.
My response to her was to ask him for the truth if he is really considering a girl. My husband on the other hand, straight forward with his words said that he was a *beep* and he yelled at her because all the homework we been helping her with was for him. As a sister in law I would tell her the truth, but I dont know how because every couple/friendship is very different. I mean, he is a great guy and he seems to care for her alot but I really dont know how they are outside of the house. She described her friendship to me several times and in my opinion, I just think this guy has alot of love to give, to everyone and anybody who is nice and caring towards him.
Eeeek! I dont want to start anything and not even married for a year yet, and I am approached with this! I dont know how to tell or say anything to her, because my hubby and I went up and down with our relationship - from friends, to lovers, to friends, and back... Any pointers... Just something I can work into her brain, I dont want to bash on the guy either because he drank at the table on our wedding... lol... he is just a great guy... I feel sorry for her but I dont even know his side of the story and it would be odd to talk to him without her.