I am way blunt...my husband always wonder how I made it through life with the way I talk. I once told a lady that I used to work with, that she needs to retire because she's old. Well, needless to say, she was super pissed and told the manager on me. The only thing is, the manager knows how I am and when she told me to be careful next time she smiled and wanted to laugh at me. I am older now so I try to be aware of others feelings...but you know as a human I slipped on my mistakes a lot :cry: :cry:
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sarNie Oldmaid
Lol I'm blunt to my employees because they need it to develop. I'm not sure if I can be that blunt here cus people's head explodes.
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sarNie Oldmaid
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My aunt is blunt. I nearly died. I believed I shared this story before somewhere on here. We were somewhat in upcountry so the road had no traffic. A car came out of nowhere and we almost crashed into the driver. My aunt honked and he took chase. My aunt and the male driver rolled down there window and he got to the other lane. This road 2 way, luckily there were no on coming traffic coming the opposite direction. He threatened to swerve his car into ours after an altercation. My aunt told him she had insurance for her car so he can do whatever. Niggers like you will pay for the consequence cause yo broke ass peeps are loser and crack head. He then pulled out a gun. My aunt still calm while I was hyperventilating. She taunt him to pull the trigger. He then sped and pulled in front of us. I thought he was going to block us but he sped away. I didn't know whether to laugh or be relieved.
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sarNie Oldmaid
Omg lol that was a death wish righ there.
x0unerthanlater
`my dragon's blood is blue`
Is this where the party at? 
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I have one incident I think either I am blunt or just stupid.
We were driving on the highway, then got pulled over by a cop. The cop told my husband to get out the car. My husband walked out calmly to the cop as he was standing facing the cop, I stuck my heat out the window and yelled..."Tell him you have a gun"
Once the cop heard that, he took a step back real quick and touched the side of his waist where the gun's at. My husband quickly put his hand up slightly and says..."I am a cop"
Gosh, after he said that, my husband give me this look like what the hell are you doing. I quickly pulled my head back inside the car but still didn't know what I did wrong. When my husband got done with the cop he walked back to the car with a red face. He said calmly to me, "Don't ever say that kind of stuff again, you almost got me killed."
That is when blunt and stupidity combined...and when that happens the result is never good :teary: :no: :teary:
We were driving on the highway, then got pulled over by a cop. The cop told my husband to get out the car. My husband walked out calmly to the cop as he was standing facing the cop, I stuck my heat out the window and yelled..."Tell him you have a gun"
Once the cop heard that, he took a step back real quick and touched the side of his waist where the gun's at. My husband quickly put his hand up slightly and says..."I am a cop"
Gosh, after he said that, my husband give me this look like what the hell are you doing. I quickly pulled my head back inside the car but still didn't know what I did wrong. When my husband got done with the cop he walked back to the car with a red face. He said calmly to me, "Don't ever say that kind of stuff again, you almost got me killed."
That is when blunt and stupidity combined...and when that happens the result is never good :teary: :no: :teary:
x0unerthanlater
`my dragon's blood is blue`
byebye, That's scary! Cops these days have trigger fingers. *whew* Good thing that was handled appropriately.
I'm not confrontational. When someone tries to argue I weigh the situation and see if it's worth it to even try to make my point. Most of the time, I'm just lazy to deal with people who aren't logical. Majority aren't. For some people, no matter how wrong they are, they still think their opinions matters the most because a group of other people might be in agreement to them. *ahem* For example the type of banding we see on this forum. I stay out of all those heated debates because they never go anywhere. You can be a very logical person but once you get into those fan battles, all logic is thrown out the window. All of a sudden you become the hater.
I'm not confrontational. When someone tries to argue I weigh the situation and see if it's worth it to even try to make my point. Most of the time, I'm just lazy to deal with people who aren't logical. Majority aren't. For some people, no matter how wrong they are, they still think their opinions matters the most because a group of other people might be in agreement to them. *ahem* For example the type of banding we see on this forum. I stay out of all those heated debates because they never go anywhere. You can be a very logical person but once you get into those fan battles, all logic is thrown out the window. All of a sudden you become the hater.
Like that one saying goes...Never argue with an idiot. They will bring you down to their level and beat you with experienced.
Hhahaha....somehow, that saying applies to some I have come across. I don't know with me, sometimes, I get into debate because it aggravates me when people say such outrageous things and think it's good. And honestly, some just need to hear it from the other side. If no one ever points out that it's wrong then they'll forever believe that it's right. But I do understand because you can only say the same thing a few times over when you realized you are beating a dead horse. I have seen passionate fans that are reasonable but I also have seen passionate fans that I believe aren't from this world lol
Hhahaha....somehow, that saying applies to some I have come across. I don't know with me, sometimes, I get into debate because it aggravates me when people say such outrageous things and think it's good. And honestly, some just need to hear it from the other side. If no one ever points out that it's wrong then they'll forever believe that it's right. But I do understand because you can only say the same thing a few times over when you realized you are beating a dead horse. I have seen passionate fans that are reasonable but I also have seen passionate fans that I believe aren't from this world lol
@Preetam: Not sure where you are getting at :scratchhead2: Cause I did said I am both lol...
But I think I was more stupid than blunt in that instance :eyetwitch:. Every time my husband tells that story he can't help but rolled his eyes. One time, I went to court with him and I met a friend there. I asked him what is he doing here? He said, he got a ticket for running a stop sign. Of course me and my big mouth, I said loudly...which A****** cop give you a ticket. There's this one cop standing right next to me. His face was red and wanted to say something to me but couldn't cause he knows my husband is a cop too. Afterward, my husband asked me if I noticed a guy standing close to me? I said, yes. My husband kindly said, you know if he could he probably said something to you. I still didn't know why at that time :no: I was like, I didn't do anything wrong. :whistle:
This happened when I was way way in my early 20's. Now, I try to think before I speak but there are times no matter how long I think it still comes out wrong
But I think I was more stupid than blunt in that instance :eyetwitch:. Every time my husband tells that story he can't help but rolled his eyes. One time, I went to court with him and I met a friend there. I asked him what is he doing here? He said, he got a ticket for running a stop sign. Of course me and my big mouth, I said loudly...which A****** cop give you a ticket. There's this one cop standing right next to me. His face was red and wanted to say something to me but couldn't cause he knows my husband is a cop too. Afterward, my husband asked me if I noticed a guy standing close to me? I said, yes. My husband kindly said, you know if he could he probably said something to you. I still didn't know why at that time :no: I was like, I didn't do anything wrong. :whistle:
This happened when I was way way in my early 20's. Now, I try to think before I speak but there are times no matter how long I think it still comes out wrong
preetam
sarNie Oldmaid
:/ sigh...byebye said:@Preetam: Not sure where you are getting at :scratchhead2: Cause I did said I am both lol...
But I think I was more stupid than blunt in that instance :eyetwitch:. Every time my husband tells that story he can't help but rolled his eyes. One time, I went to court with him and I met a friend there. I asked him what is he doing here? He said, he got a ticket for running a stop sign. Of course me and my big mouth, I said loudly...which A****** cop give you a ticket. There's this one cop standing right next to me. His face was red and wanted to say something to me but couldn't cause he knows my husband is a cop too. Afterward, my husband asked me if I noticed a guy standing close to me? I said, yes. My husband kindly said, you know if he could he probably said something to you. I still didn't know why at that time :no: I was like, I didn't do anything wrong. :whistle:
This happened when I was way way in my early 20's. Now, I try to think before I speak but there are times no matter how long I think it still comes out wrong
x0unerthanlater
`my dragon's blood is blue`
byebye, My bf is like that too. He's very blunt and doesn't give a crap about what you may think. If you're being an idiot he'll tell you. He's a more confrontational person. But in our relationship, we're both open and say things straight out. When I'm with others, I tend to just let them think whatever especially the people who are hopeless. Can't change hard headed people. Lol Plus, if I get into someones face I wouldn't want them to beat me up or something. I'm barely 120 lbs, LOL
Yeah Preetam my husband feels the same way...he gives me more than enough sighs hahahah...but we've been married 3 months shy of 16 years so it's all good. The only people I am very careful around is church people. I don't know they come off very sensitive so I am kind of very quiet around them. It also help when I became I Christian, I am not as harsh and my thinking mellow out a bit. The only person I am completely straight forward is my husband. I never nor will I sugar coat things with him. It's a headache to try to make things beautiful when in fact it is not. The thing is I am like 100lbs lol but when I talk I feel bigger.
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I'm pretty blunt too and so is my husband we are not pleasant people to be around lol... For us though we are blunt to where it becomes disrespectful
Recently an older relative said something to me about being pregnant and well she was indirectly trying to call me a slut for being pregnant. "Girls these days getting pregnant so young before their 30's makes them slutty" (Something along those lines)
"I was like Oh if I'm pregnant at 27 with MY HUSBAND, then it must make your daughter an angel 15 an pregnant for the 3rd time after just having a baby a few months ago, with a third guy." Then she told me I was a bitch for bullying her daughter someone younger (I know this was wrong, but I wanted her to realize sometimes the shit she says are stupid and she needs to think about how people would respond).. I was like Oh so you must be a even bigger bitch for bullying me and I'm half your age. "
If my husband were there he probably would have said worst, I know what could be worst then what I've said lol and trust me he could do worst.
An incident where we went on a double with a guy friend and his girlfriend. She was wearing something super revealing (A very low cut dress you can see her buttcheeks, and the top of the dress was very deep too any lower you can probably see partial nipple). We went to a restaurant and all these guys were like oogling her and she said something like, "Gosh why do guys look at me like that and their girlfriends look like they want to kill me."
My husband: It's because you're dressed like a slut. There is nothing wrong with dressing that way, but don't fucking act like you don't know why. When you made the choice to put something like that on you know why you did it. Don't pretend like you don't know what kind of attention what you wear bring. If I came to the restaurant with a tight ass shirt pressing in my abs I would know why i did it. Our friend was like so upset with us. He looked at me to tell my husband to stop, I kind of nudged my husband to be a little nicer, and he looked at me like "I'm glad you don't feel like you need to dress like a slut to be beautiful." /facepalm. Then he went on to say, "Again, I have no problem with what girls wear, but don't pretend you don't know what kind of attention it brings. Your fucking tits are basically about to pop out, your fucking ass is basically about to dive from your skirt."
People tell us that one day we're going to have no friends if we keep telling people how we feel openly (Kinda true, I have like a handful of friends now a days)
Recently an older relative said something to me about being pregnant and well she was indirectly trying to call me a slut for being pregnant. "Girls these days getting pregnant so young before their 30's makes them slutty" (Something along those lines)
"I was like Oh if I'm pregnant at 27 with MY HUSBAND, then it must make your daughter an angel 15 an pregnant for the 3rd time after just having a baby a few months ago, with a third guy." Then she told me I was a bitch for bullying her daughter someone younger (I know this was wrong, but I wanted her to realize sometimes the shit she says are stupid and she needs to think about how people would respond).. I was like Oh so you must be a even bigger bitch for bullying me and I'm half your age. "
If my husband were there he probably would have said worst, I know what could be worst then what I've said lol and trust me he could do worst.
An incident where we went on a double with a guy friend and his girlfriend. She was wearing something super revealing (A very low cut dress you can see her buttcheeks, and the top of the dress was very deep too any lower you can probably see partial nipple). We went to a restaurant and all these guys were like oogling her and she said something like, "Gosh why do guys look at me like that and their girlfriends look like they want to kill me."
My husband: It's because you're dressed like a slut. There is nothing wrong with dressing that way, but don't fucking act like you don't know why. When you made the choice to put something like that on you know why you did it. Don't pretend like you don't know what kind of attention what you wear bring. If I came to the restaurant with a tight ass shirt pressing in my abs I would know why i did it. Our friend was like so upset with us. He looked at me to tell my husband to stop, I kind of nudged my husband to be a little nicer, and he looked at me like "I'm glad you don't feel like you need to dress like a slut to be beautiful." /facepalm. Then he went on to say, "Again, I have no problem with what girls wear, but don't pretend you don't know what kind of attention it brings. Your fucking tits are basically about to pop out, your fucking ass is basically about to dive from your skirt."
People tell us that one day we're going to have no friends if we keep telling people how we feel openly
(Kinda true, I have like a handful of friends now a days)Ncmeowmeow35
sarNie Oldmaid
hahahah That isn't blunt, that is straight up stupidity, love. :whahuh: Your husband is right, lol that shit can get him killed. Blunt is a lack of regards for the feeling of others. Telling the cop he's ugly and stink is blunt, telling your husband to tell him you got a gun is a death wish :loool: . Oh man you are priceless. :coverlaf:byebye said:
@Meow lol: I kind of figure it's a stupid move. Heck, I was 21 then and I have done so many stupid...stupid thing that should have gotten me killed a long time ago. I think in a sense God knows most of the time I am too stupid and naïve for my own good.
Since we are on the stupid track. When I was 19, I drove this old celica car that broke down on the side of the road. I waited and a little red small car stopped. He was an old man in his early 50s. He asked if he can help, I told him my car broke down and I don't have a way to call home (I didn't have cell phone back then). He opened the car door. Of course, me seeing the world as a safe place, I hopped in without a second thought.
He drove a bit and got to talking. He asked me do I want him to take me to the gas station or take me home. I responded eagerly, take me home :shrug: Well, he droved me home and I said thanks to him. But before I have a chance to get out the door he stopped me and gave me a friendly advice. He said, next time do not get in a stranger's car so easily. Not everyone is going to be nice and drive you home. :mellow:
Since we are on the stupid track. When I was 19, I drove this old celica car that broke down on the side of the road. I waited and a little red small car stopped. He was an old man in his early 50s. He asked if he can help, I told him my car broke down and I don't have a way to call home (I didn't have cell phone back then). He opened the car door. Of course, me seeing the world as a safe place, I hopped in without a second thought.
He drove a bit and got to talking. He asked me do I want him to take me to the gas station or take me home. I responded eagerly, take me home :shrug: Well, he droved me home and I said thanks to him. But before I have a chance to get out the door he stopped me and gave me a friendly advice. He said, next time do not get in a stranger's car so easily. Not everyone is going to be nice and drive you home. :mellow: