OKAY, so I'm 21 yrs old and I haven't dated in four years due to bad experiences and just because I'm independent and don't need a man right now.
So my mother thinks that I'm old enough to get marry and she's introducing all these new guys to me and hopes that I'll marry one of them soon. I understand her feelings and all that, but you can't force a marriage on someone who doesn't want one.
My mother keeps telling me that I'm not getting any younger and I should get marry while men will still want me since I'm young. It's getting on my nerves a bit since I could careless about my age or others...
I also think that I'm being too picky when it comes to men also. I have a certain criteria that they have to meet and certain things that I have to like before I even consider dating them and it comes right down to the point where it's either I like their voice tone or not!
I've tried talking to her and try to make her understand my feelings, but she's not listening. I want to move out, but the whole "it's not proper for an unmarried woman to live on her own blah blah blah" line that my mom keeps coming up with makes me feel like I'm letting her down.
I rather marry at age 30 and live happily ever after than get marry at age 21 and become a divorcee!
I need some advice on how to make my mother back off a bit and give me space!!!!!!!!!
So my mother thinks that I'm old enough to get marry and she's introducing all these new guys to me and hopes that I'll marry one of them soon. I understand her feelings and all that, but you can't force a marriage on someone who doesn't want one.
My mother keeps telling me that I'm not getting any younger and I should get marry while men will still want me since I'm young. It's getting on my nerves a bit since I could careless about my age or others...
I also think that I'm being too picky when it comes to men also. I have a certain criteria that they have to meet and certain things that I have to like before I even consider dating them and it comes right down to the point where it's either I like their voice tone or not!
I've tried talking to her and try to make her understand my feelings, but she's not listening. I want to move out, but the whole "it's not proper for an unmarried woman to live on her own blah blah blah" line that my mom keeps coming up with makes me feel like I'm letting her down.
I rather marry at age 30 and live happily ever after than get marry at age 21 and become a divorcee!
I need some advice on how to make my mother back off a bit and give me space!!!!!!!!!