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sunflower
i live in minnesota.. and i know of 2 hmong girls whose been raped, not close friends but girls that i went to school with... i was told by my friend that they were raped after taking drugs, too... the two girls were 14 and 16 years of age.. i found out after they had told their school counselors or something... i think those two girls dropped out and never returned to school... i don't see them around anymore... hopefully their families didn't force them to marry the person that raped them.. that would be aweful!
aniwaise.. after reading the stories that anti-hmong posted i am shocked by how many times this happens! it's aweful... i'm not going to say that those girls 'deserve it' but those girls did make themselves vulnerable to the rapist... for example.. the girls that went a few blocks from their house to go get ice cream... if she didn't get into the car, no matter how her friend told her and begged her, she wouldn't of had been raped. if only she had walked home on the street where the public can see and if they tried to force her she could scream and people would hear her.. she wouldn't end up in that basement.
and the first case of the 12 year old girl. what the heck is a 12 year old girl doing at a late night party with a bunch of drinking and drug taking adults? that just ticked me off... at first i thought she was at some sleep over party with her other 12 year olds at a supervised house or something.. but she jumped into a car full of many male gang members! what the heck? what was she thinking? that they were gonna take her to some ice cream shop and than take her home?
overall, no matter how vulnerable these girls were.. those idiots had no right to take advantage, rape and prostitute a 12 or 16 year old girl or any girl or woman no matter what age they are at! they deserve to burn in hell... and i'm sure that these kinda things happen in every culture and area, but it just happens in this area more than any other area and mostly to young hmong girls. so i get why anti-hmong is only focusing in one area and only on hmong... since this is a hmong topic, she was only talking about hmong girls... so don't jump to conclude that anti-hmong was saying that it only happens to hmong girls.....
i am not hmong... so i am not familiar with the culture but all these girls seem to say one thing... they are embarrassed and fear that they will be rejected from their society.. i guess running away and going to parties is on a different embarrasment or disrespectful level to the family than being sexually assaulted. and most of them feared of having to be forced into an arranged marriage most likely with one of her rapist... imagine how gruesome that would be... marrying a person who raped you when you were only 12 or 15 years old... in my mind right now... reading all these stories.. i think i would rather be killed or kill those bastards myself... it wouldn't do me any justice to force them to marry me when i am more than 99% sure that they would physically and emotionally abuse me in the future and more than likely they may do this to other girls, regardless if i marry them or not... (that's just the kinda person that i am.. so don't take my opinion to heart) ...
i think woman in general should get over this whole perfect image thing... the world is not perfect, and NO ONE is perfect... so if something bad happens to you, by all means report it! if you don't they will think that all woman are like this and keep on going without thinking that it's wrong... or maybe they know that it's wrong but think that woman are just too scared or weak and won't report it... or can't do anything to them just because of the culture... well guess what? this is AMERICA! here, if a girl is sexually assaulted before the age of 18.. that bastard is gonna be put in jail! and even if you are over the age of 18, and you were raped or sexually insulted you can put those bastards in jail! so forget what cultures you are from and the rules that hold you back from getting justice and tell your school teachers or counselors... or call the cops and put those idiotic bastards in jail!
aniwaise.. after reading the stories that anti-hmong posted i am shocked by how many times this happens! it's aweful... i'm not going to say that those girls 'deserve it' but those girls did make themselves vulnerable to the rapist... for example.. the girls that went a few blocks from their house to go get ice cream... if she didn't get into the car, no matter how her friend told her and begged her, she wouldn't of had been raped. if only she had walked home on the street where the public can see and if they tried to force her she could scream and people would hear her.. she wouldn't end up in that basement.
and the first case of the 12 year old girl. what the heck is a 12 year old girl doing at a late night party with a bunch of drinking and drug taking adults? that just ticked me off... at first i thought she was at some sleep over party with her other 12 year olds at a supervised house or something.. but she jumped into a car full of many male gang members! what the heck? what was she thinking? that they were gonna take her to some ice cream shop and than take her home?
overall, no matter how vulnerable these girls were.. those idiots had no right to take advantage, rape and prostitute a 12 or 16 year old girl or any girl or woman no matter what age they are at! they deserve to burn in hell... and i'm sure that these kinda things happen in every culture and area, but it just happens in this area more than any other area and mostly to young hmong girls. so i get why anti-hmong is only focusing in one area and only on hmong... since this is a hmong topic, she was only talking about hmong girls... so don't jump to conclude that anti-hmong was saying that it only happens to hmong girls.....
i am not hmong... so i am not familiar with the culture but all these girls seem to say one thing... they are embarrassed and fear that they will be rejected from their society.. i guess running away and going to parties is on a different embarrasment or disrespectful level to the family than being sexually assaulted. and most of them feared of having to be forced into an arranged marriage most likely with one of her rapist... imagine how gruesome that would be... marrying a person who raped you when you were only 12 or 15 years old... in my mind right now... reading all these stories.. i think i would rather be killed or kill those bastards myself... it wouldn't do me any justice to force them to marry me when i am more than 99% sure that they would physically and emotionally abuse me in the future and more than likely they may do this to other girls, regardless if i marry them or not... (that's just the kinda person that i am.. so don't take my opinion to heart) ...
i think woman in general should get over this whole perfect image thing... the world is not perfect, and NO ONE is perfect... so if something bad happens to you, by all means report it! if you don't they will think that all woman are like this and keep on going without thinking that it's wrong... or maybe they know that it's wrong but think that woman are just too scared or weak and won't report it... or can't do anything to them just because of the culture... well guess what? this is AMERICA! here, if a girl is sexually assaulted before the age of 18.. that bastard is gonna be put in jail! and even if you are over the age of 18, and you were raped or sexually insulted you can put those bastards in jail! so forget what cultures you are from and the rules that hold you back from getting justice and tell your school teachers or counselors... or call the cops and put those idiotic bastards in jail!