bugsy
sarNie Adult
huh? when did this law pass? i've never heard of it. I mean...i know the dowry is part of tradition for alot of asian cultures out there but i didnt know this law passed and watever in cali. Weird.
Anyways....dowrys are another contradictive issue. All imma say is that those parents who sell their daughters away for money (and ive seen it happen) are sad people. Man!! they're THAT desperate to sell their daughters off for a load of money, which they're probably gonna use within that year. Those same parents probably got sold off for a high price too. *sigh.....
Anyways, I know my parents would not do that to us girls cause my dad is a wedding negotiator and hes seen too many situations where the bride and groom runs off because the dowry cannot be settled. Sad stuff. I mean...gosh...sometimes....like anti-hmong said....you just wanna say "F it" ...."screw tradition!" ...but...its gonna be a long ways till that happens
Anyways....dowrys are another contradictive issue. All imma say is that those parents who sell their daughters away for money (and ive seen it happen) are sad people. Man!! they're THAT desperate to sell their daughters off for a load of money, which they're probably gonna use within that year. Those same parents probably got sold off for a high price too. *sigh.....
Anyways, I know my parents would not do that to us girls cause my dad is a wedding negotiator and hes seen too many situations where the bride and groom runs off because the dowry cannot be settled. Sad stuff. I mean...gosh...sometimes....like anti-hmong said....you just wanna say "F it" ...."screw tradition!" ...but...its gonna be a long ways till that happens