mongstaness
sarNie Adult
who made this law? i think that it's rather expensive cuz i dont wanna buy my wife for that much!!!! im gonna be usin my money for college, why shuld they try n make me pay 5 Gs....lol
Nicely said...but I really think that the parents shouldn't give a price for the son-in-law to pay...because now it seems like they're selling their daughter... instead I think it's the son-in-law who should be the one to decide how much they would want to give the parents...the money is suppose to only be like a gift for the parents to show them how much he appreciate them for letting him married their daughter...and I do believe this is how it used to be back in the days...This is odd news! The bride price is your future husband's gratitude to your family. I don't think of it as selling you. I mean c'mon, when you get married yeah your parents want the dowry. But their gonna give it right back to you when you leave.
Think of it this way: They give you gold necklaces, money, car, clothes, blankets, pots, pans, they raised you, they provided the wedding and etc.....I mean, add all those up and their giving more than they get. So c'mon cut them some slacks!
nicely say!Nicely said...but I really think that the parents shouldn't give a price for the son-in-law to pay...because now it seems like they're selling their daughter... instead I think it's the son-in-law who should be the one to decide how much they would want to give the parents...the money is suppose to only be like a gift for the parents to show them how much he appreciate them for letting him married their daughter...and I do believe this is how it used to be back in the days...
I believe this has changed because hmong people are really greedy..I think this whole thing about putting a price on the daughters happend in laos..because hmong people were broke back then so they needed money so they gave a price for the daughters...now in america..I believe it's because there's too many divorces so the parents want the son-in-laws to see their daughter of some sort of value to him...so he will not look at other women, but I don't think it really matters anymore to people...
I have an uncle who was married (don't recall how much he paid for his wife) and his wife went to work and cheated on him. He then told the white dude that he had to pay for his wife and made the white dude pay him 600 dollars I think...and that's the end of them...lol...now she's so messed up..all over the place after a new guy every once in a while...and my unlce is a bum...crazy and have no life now..lol..wat a life they had...