I do agreen w/you.... everyone is judgemental too... dont think that you are not because you are.... you just dont realizeal it yet..... I know I am cause I do it too...amaymoua said:I think because when you get down to the point, appreance does matter for the most part. For example, if a hot ass guys asked you out, verse a ugly guy , both nice and all, I'm pretty sure majority of us would pick the hot ass guy...
No matter how much we hate being judge, trust me, we are also very judgemental too... but in a way that we don't think that we are.
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Yeah.... I trutly agreen w/you.... onces you live by youseft for move away.... and dont have your parents around... that's when you'll miss them.... living w/your parents is the best thing cause they always do things for you... just dont realizal it.... for example.... my older sister she still live w/my parents and they do everything for her... my mom will wake up to cook for her befor she go to work... she dont really have to do anything much.... all she have to do is wake up and eat than go to work....is not that my sister is lazy or whatever but my mom just dont want her to do it... my mom thought it would be to much for her soo... she rather do it.... parents love you they dont hate you they just want the best for you that is all... it ture like what you said... parents just want to protected you.... they dont want any bad things to happen to you....paj sua yaj said:i think that everyone has a point.....i am not a parent and i still live with my parents....but i live at school most...of my times....i would go home every weekend.....i use to think that i want to get away from my parents when i grow up...not by marriage but i want to go to college far away that i don't have to follow my parents rule....but after all those year away i still visite my parents every week......my college is about 6 hours drive home but still i go home very friday.....i don't know if the ladies in here that got married think the same like me...but i at time...i really miss my parents...and by living on your own you will come to learn that what your parents did from you as a samll child....was something that you will never forget....sometimes i miss how the are over protected......while i learn how to be my self...i have also, learned how to love my parents more then i have ever thought....at times now i thinkto my self why i use to think that they are soo strick...it just how they are OVER PROTECTED.....they want the best out of you.....
will kind of out of the subject....when i was watching the OUTSIDER....the movie had shown a lot of views that made me understand more of my parents...the real world is not what you think it is......there are many things that you have to learn step by step....don't take big step....because you may fall and never have the chance to stand up agian.....or if you have the chance...hope that you will learn from it and improve it...for the future......
that is what i have learn from living away from my parents.....i have to protect my self...and learned how to be an adult at the same time.....hope that from this experince i would never what to stay away for my parents......
what ever way your parents teach you i think that they are tell you in a good way.....but its just the way they tell you!!!!!!!
i understant that as a teen you will never understand your parents...becuase they did not grow up in the world that you grow up in......i don't know if this feeling would help you...undertand your parents feeling more.....but many older people had tell me that once you become a parent then you will understand why your parents was like that to you too.......
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paj sua yaj said:i think that everyone has a point.....i am not a parent and i still live with my parents....but i live at school most...of my times....i would go home every weekend.....i use to think that i want to get away from my parents when i grow up...not by marriage but i want to go to college far away that i don't have to follow my parents rule....but after all those year away i still visite my parents every week......my college is about 6 hours drive home but still i go home very friday.....i don't know if the ladies in here that got married think the same like me...but i at time...i really miss my parents...and by living on your own you will come to learn that what your parents did from you as a samll child....was something that you will never forget....sometimes i miss how the are over protected......while i learn how to be my self...i have also, learned how to love my parents more then i have ever thought....at times now i thinkto my self why i use to think that they are soo strick...it just how they are OVER PROTECTED.....they want the best out of you.....
will kind of out of the subject....when i was watching the OUTSIDER....the movie had shown a lot of views that made me understand more of my parents...the real world is not what you think it is......there are many things that you have to learn step by step....don't take big step....because you may fall and never have the chance to stand up agian.....or if you have the chance...hope that you will learn from it and improve it...for the future......
that is what i have learn from living away from my parents.....i have to protect my self...and learned how to be an adult at the same time.....hope that from this experince i would never what to stay away for my parents......
what ever way your parents teach you i think that they are tell you in a good way.....but its just the way they tell you!!!!!!!
i understant that as a teen you will never understand your parents...becuase they did not grow up in the world that you grow up in......i don't know if this feeling would help you...undertand your parents feeling more.....but many older people had tell me that once you become a parent then you will understand why your parents was like that to you too.......
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