People keep telling me that I am so PASSIVE... In my mind and heart its a feeling of kindness and helping others who need it. I dont see that I am really that PASSIVE; am I? Yes, it is true that I do let people take advantage of me and ask me to do everything they want and lend anything to them and etc... But see... THIS IS HOW I SEE IT... Growing up in a BIG family with 10 kids; my parent could only give so much to each child... Being one of the 10 that never got much I learned to be this way... I was never given much of anything growing up so now that Ima an adult I want to be able to give to others who dont have. I never liked the way I was treated growing up so I dont want to treat my family and friends that way. If someone I knew needed money I lend; if someone needed food I gave; and if someone needed help I supported. But when it comes down to me; when I am at most lowest point in life, finally there is someone to lend a helping hand; but everyone alwaise seem to watch me suffer first. It makes me so sad that I have helped so many and yet I never receive when I need it the most...
Deep in my heart if I was sharing food with anyone; whether it may be my parents or friends and I know that they have worked so hard I would let them eat their fill even if I am starving. I dont know how to adjust myself and accept anything. Its so difficult... People keep telling me I am too PASSIVE; that I need to change. But if I change, how and wat would really happen to me? Could they accept me? So many questions roam in my mind... I dare not change because I can admit... I AM SCARE OF CHANGE...
Deep in my heart if I was sharing food with anyone; whether it may be my parents or friends and I know that they have worked so hard I would let them eat their fill even if I am starving. I dont know how to adjust myself and accept anything. Its so difficult... People keep telling me I am too PASSIVE; that I need to change. But if I change, how and wat would really happen to me? Could they accept me? So many questions roam in my mind... I dare not change because I can admit... I AM SCARE OF CHANGE...