the gram was just doing a backhand compliment lol. Old people are so good at that.
Off topic: When I was in Bali and hubby bought a pearl ring for me for our anniversary, we got it sized the first time and it was still loose on me. We went back to see if it can be resized, the owner looked at the ring on my finger and said that it's a little loose but should be fine. She was like, keep it like that just in case you get bigger...she did her hands to make my shape to be wider. So, I asked her...you mean when I get fatter? She smiled at me and said, you not big now but maybe later.
What a backhand compliment she gave me with a smile lol. My husband couldn't help but laugh.