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I did not in the past, but if I go back I would date a guy with nice personality.

Married one for 21 years. It worked out wonderfully

I can't. There's gotta be a balance of both for me.

I wasn't attracted to him when marrying him. Because it was an arranged marriage but grew to love him because he's very nice and have taken good care of me and given me everything. He worked hard to give me a good life. And with that, I find him attractive. His personality makes him beautiful.

That's so beautiful @byebye. Sometimes people's personalities really do make them more attractive.
I'm with you, @x0unerthanlater. I think both are important to me as well.

If he is a very nice and mature person I know I can grow with, why not as long as he is not my dad generation (a huge no for me) ?

For me I usually grow attracted to people who are honestly not that good looking because of their personality. I naturally just start thinking they are attractive physically over time. However I need to be attracted to you physically to ever be in a relationship with you. It can’t just be all personality for me. If I’m not attracted to you physically, I would never want them touching me or anything. 80/20

My husband isn't fugly or anything extreme lol. I wasn't attracted to him at first because he wasn't the person I envision I would be married to. But being with him and building a life together, looks became secondary. A handsome is just that if he can't take care of me. Because looks fade and once it does what's left?

@SuzieJ Same! The last guy that I liked, I wouldn’t have even taken a second glance at if I didn’t get to know him personally. He was very below average physically but his personality just made him so attractive. So now I know attractiveness is much more holistic for me than I had thought.

If you have to pick between a not good looking guy with a nice personality or handsome good looking with terrible personality. Which one would you pick?

@Koy123 Oh man...I'd rather not pick haha. I obviously wouldn't want to be with an a-hole of a partner but I also wouldn't want to just be with a "nice guy" and be bored/unhappy in my relationship. DO I HAVE TO PICK?! hahaha

What about you?

If I have to pick between the two, I’ll pick the nice guy. I rather be treated like a queen then like shit. I can’t tolerate bad behavior.

There are things I'm attracted to in a guy that doesn't necessarily have to do with physical appearances. Sometimes it's the way they talk, walk, smile, stretch... etc.. Like a certain aura. I'm more attracted to sex appeal. If the chemistry is there, he automatically looks hot to me even if he's considered average.

What about picking between ugly guy with a nice personality that is rich and a hot one with a nice personality that is not loaded ? :'D

@preetam lmao we already know what some daras would pick (not so sure about their personalities though lol)

@preetam I'll be the hot woman with money that'll marry any man lol