Away from my sw forum cause we went to Santa Rosa for the b-day weekend. My bf and I along with his sister and nephew went too. Anyways her bf here which she denies likes us not to mention bf but a friend. He's abt 60 yrs. old nice, and living together. He probably pays for everything her house, gift even 20k ring. When we got to Santa Rosa she reminded us not to mention JJ(old man) in front of others there. She's in her lates 30's along with her new man in Santa Rosa that she's been seeing him 1 yr behind JJ back. I felt like he's being used and just sad because love doesn't mean anything. He's old but he deserved to be treated right. She talks sweet with them but it just makes me weird hearing her talking to the phone with the other man when she has jj at home. Do u know what i mean. Don't she feel La ai Jai (embarrass) I guess that's the word to described it.