my brother forget to pack his clothes to camp

[song]

the thing was that nobody in my family knew that my brother is going to camp this week...my brother himslef did remember the date..we did ask him and he said that their maybe going on march 4 or 8...so no one know that it was this Monday...skip to the maid point..my brother end up going to camp with no clothes..the only thing that he have was his backpage that he alway bring to school..^^..me and my family are have a headaches form all this cazy..we have to call his school ..because he never come home that day..that how we all got the headaches..what we found out that he at camp with this classmates...thank god one of his teacher is going there the next day(tuesday)...we end pack all his clothes and drop it up at his school.. someone help cheer me up ..i kind mad that my brother now..for get us the headaches..beside that i have a big test the next day too...^^

 

[nancyvang]

Hmong boys will be hmong boys, whatever range of age they are. They always expect their parents (mainly the mother) or their sibling (mainly the sister) to do everything for them, pack their clothing and whatever little thing it is that they could had simply done it themselves.

Anyway this is probably just a small communication problem,just makes sure you communicate with him better next time because boys tend to skip important details or get those details confuse.

I'm glad you guys got things sorted out. My mom love his boys so if this ever happen to them she would had just gone herself to give him his stuff, that's how much she loves them, compare to us girls.

 

[ayang874]

I agree my mother is sexist like a lot of other Hmong mothers. She totally favors her boys all the time. Sometimes it really pisses me off. My dad on the other hand is somewhat neutral. Guess we're just suppose to accept it because of our culture, however, I do see parents becoming more lenient now when dealing with their daughters. Girls I find are more outgoing and ambitious than boys. Oh well, this sexism thing in our Hmong culture will just help us treat our own daughters better and more equally to our sons when we have our own kids.