Money is always good. When I got married didn't want anything for the home cause I know I changed my mind about things easily. Money will be used for other stuff, so cash is the way to go. If it's an Asian wedding that is pretty much all they want.
yep check if they are register for any store. i usually stay away from the usual gift. my aunt received 8 slow pot cooker, and she didnt know what to do with them. i usually write a check bc i have issue with trusting people after my cousin wedding. her mother in law took her wedding money she received from her family and friends.
wine/$$ is always good