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ceda_lee
I was labeled a "Pinky's fan" the moment I started bashing Tanya loooooong ago. I liked her in WWHJ & that's about it. She's not Aff or Ann T to me LOL!
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Maya_Fantasy
Nothing wrong with being a fan, and I still considered myself one of Pinky's fan, even though I don't agree with how she handles her "personal life" and I don't waste my time arguing with anti-fans either. Ceda-lee you should ignore and stop wasting your time arguing/posting with those anti-peoples so you'll feel better. Some peoples must think they're celestial beings to know everything going on with other people personal lives to be so judgmental. LMAO :)
cecilia
cecilia
Yeah, i stop the minute they start doing personal attack. That's when i know there's no point of explaining with BELIEVER who already made up their minds. You can't open a close eye if it continues to remain shut.
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fun
Maya that is true. Even though I am not a fan of Pinky, I believe Tanya wasn't right either. You can still defend a person even when you are not a fan. I am not saying Pinky was right either but considering the situation, I wasn't referring to the affair. I was just saying that Tanya recording and leaking out the information was morally wrong. She was the one who decided to stay in that kind of relationship so for her to insult Pinky's mom, recorded and leaked it out like that, w...
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....was just low of her. I can't respect Tanya when she put herself in that kind of situation. And like I said, Pinky is no good herself. Why would she still keep in contact with Pek. The I miss you text Pinky claimed innocent is not. Come on you had an affair with the guy and ruined your career, why still keep in contact with him? And I didn't like Pek or Pinky's explanation. It didn't make much sense.
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ceda_lee
fun...reading that, u know Tanya supports will automatically call u "Pinky's PR, protector, fan, etc." LOL!

Maya, I argue, but I try to keep it topic related & not let emotions or personal bias interfere. I think expressing different ideas & beliefs can be educational to a certain point. Some people however, think it's a pissing game.
cecilia
cecilia
There are better ways to handle this situation than to let emotions take over. If people comes in with a clear mind (no side), they'll get the idea that none of us are picking side. We're actually stating what should be done, could be done to better solve this issue. At the end of the day, we know it's all of them (three) fault, not just one or the other. Sure one ruined the other but that doesn't mean that the other should come back to ruin one just to get even. This is su...
cecilia
cecilia
.... This is such a childish game. Personal attacks should be the last thing on anyone's agenda. Wishing someone ill is the last straw for me to make sense out of these people who claimed side.
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ceda_lee
I know...and then they started saying mean things about u too Ceci. Such narrow-minded people.
cecilia
cecilia
They can say or call me all these names, at the end of the day, i know i'm right from the start to not pull myself low enough to start calling them name too. Using personal attack is the lowest act anyone can pull when they have nothing else to use against me and i will not allow myself to think this low of others to start calling them this and that to get my point across. There are better ways out there to every problem - some people just need more time to digest the truth to see the r...
cecilia
cecilia
... reality in the eyes of those who stood for just. I spend 1 year of my life in solitude, figuring what's wrong with me when i was angry at everything then .. i finally understood myself .. and see the 'other' people. Before stepping over someone's toe, i make sure i cover my ground first so i can defend myself with good reasons (not emotional reasons).
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fun
I seriously just don't understand how we are basing this on emotions? It's more like they are doing it because of the affair. They are basing their feelings/emotion on that. So I don't know how they came up with that certainly I didn't base on my opinion on any emotions.
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ceda_lee
And also using personal experience to judge someone else or to draw conclusions...

It just makes no sense to me, but I'm sure I'm not making any sense to them either.
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Maya_Fantasy
Ceda, that's why I said is a waste of time, because not everyone will play nice. So just forget and ignore them. Come back and have fun here at AF. :)

But I gotta say I enjoy reading all of the posts over there, including you girls' posts too. :)

FUN, no comment b/c P&T&P can't let go of the sin they've created. Past Karma is catching up and present Karma is waiting. They all need to do lots more merit. LOLz.

AMITAPHOUT or AMEN! Whi...
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ceda_lee
Maya...if there was a like button, you'd get double like for this.

Oh...and you can't say "amen." Apparently, someone got really offended. I remember someone went off and started talking about religion...like seriously??? But you can use it here...I don't think anyone in here cares.
cecilia
cecilia
Did you see .. i use AMEN and got lecture for that .. i did apologized b/c i didn't mean to use it in the wrong way ... aside from this . .i'd say, ignore the ignorant (if that make sense)
cecilia
cecilia
Yes, i was told i need to take PREACHING courses before i preach. I did not know that to share one wise words, one has to take lots of course to share later. If i applied this theory in all the WISER MEN out there, i could be saying they're all bogus lmao .. However, i did take the nun comment to heart (being good or not) it's still a compliment to me - at least i know someone value my wisdom enough to consider me one ^__^
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narkrakdin24^^
I have no idea what this Affair of Pinky's is about but everyone who commented before me is so wise. The wisest people I have ever met on the internet. I'm learning how to be more mature from you guys lols.
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ceda_lee
narkrakd, you're being sarcastic right? After all that going back and forth, I don't know who's kidding & who's being serious anymore haha.
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Maya_Fantasy
:) I don't know either Ceda, but I am sure having fun and a good laugh reading all of these posts over. I'm too happy with my beloved ARSHI's in today episode to be serious or care whatever none sense has to say or think of all of everyone's post here.

AMEN! Cecilia. OH GOSH what is this World coming to now? ROFLMAO LOL
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