if a man wants you..

ohitsnoyyy

Mama Noy ♥️
ladies... you might find this useful... please read.. it might make you rethink.. :)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children! by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...
there is nothing cute about baggage...
deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knowwhere you are,
and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house!
Never co-sign for a man!
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.


Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
 

Quarter

Tell me about it.
man i knew all of those a long time ago, and where am i now? stuck. and doing things to keep this thing going. gawd. this is why they say "love is blind." im currently blind, but i can't seem to let go. dang i have issues. i tell my friends and family to not be so stupid, but im turning stupid and its not cool.
 

7270

7270
oh! it's noy! :tease:

I'll strikethrough the ones I don't agree with. :ph34r:

Oh. I especially like this one: Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. bing! bing! :dude:

I agree with all but the ones listed below. ;)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. men have hobbies, dreams & goals. like how woman should not treat a man like her quasi-god, a man should also not treat a woman like his quasi-god. :p ergo... there will be things which can keep him away from her.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. like some women, things like money, looks, children, obligation, etc... can also make some men stay in a relationship.
Never let a man know everything. exactly what kind of relationship are we looking for? one filled with secrets and skeletons in the closet?
He will use it against you later. that's b/c girl picked the wrong dude to begin with.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
commitment or not, shouldn't a woman or any person be able to satisfy their own needs? Never look to others to satisfy your need or needs. your toosh will never be happy. -_-
 

noungning

Heartless
oh! it's noy! :tease:

I'll strikethrough the ones I don't agree with. :ph34r:

Oh. I especially like this one: Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. bing! bing! :dude:

I agree with all but the ones listed below. ;)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. men have hobbies, dreams & goals. like how woman should not treat a man like her quasi-god, a man should also not treat a woman like his quasi-god. :p ergo... there will be things which can keep him away from her.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. like some women, things like money, looks, children, obligation, etc... can also make some men stay in a relationship.
Never let a man know everything. exactly what kind of relationship are we looking for? one filled with secrets and skeletons in the closet?
He will use it against you later. that's b/c girl picked the wrong dude to begin with.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
commitment or not, shouldn't a woman or any person be able to satisfy their own needs? Never look to others to satisfy your need or needs. your toosh will never be happy. -_-
lol yes... in a relationship it's about give and take... and there's always a medium somewhere... i don't think u go in and NEED to have all your wants and needs fulfill and u may never be able to find that person that is willing to give give give without wanting anything in return... i think that just happens in fairy tales.
 

~Sandy~

Memories with Oil from his U.S. Tour in Nov 2009!
*sighs* Going through a break up with my ex fiance of 4 years, BF of 6 1/2 years, with 2 kids...

This was kinda a "slap in the face". Sucks that I knew all this from the gecko, and was always giving great advice for others. Like Quarter said "love is blind", yes it is girl!!! But one thing for sure...we are NOT stupid.

It's all going to take MAD time to recover from any relationship. And the one I'm going through now, has been the worst yet, since we have 2 kids with eachother. But I know I am STRONG...I will not die, if I don't have a man. I can take care of kids, and probably will be able to provide more for them than he ever could!!

OK...I'm venting now...LOL...sorry!
 

koblo

sarNie Hatchling
*sighs* Going through a break up with my ex fiance of 4 years, BF of 6 1/2 years, with 2 kids...

This was kinda a "slap in the face". Sucks that I knew all this from the gecko, and was always giving great advice for others. Like Quarter said "love is blind", yes it is girl!!! But one thing for sure...we are NOT stupid.

It's all going to take MAD time to recover from any relationship. And the one I'm going through now, has been the worst yet, since we have 2 kids with eachother. But I know I am STRONG...I will not die, if I don't have a man. I can take care of kids, and probably will be able to provide more for them than he ever could!!

OK...I'm venting now...LOL...sorry!
Well hang in there =D You will find your motivation to live on again!
 
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