LOL CC:
I agree on not being friends after the breakup only if he cheats on me. I find it disrespectful that someone can't find it in their heart to tell the person that they once love that they are falling out of love. I told my husband that if he ever cheats on me, I will cut it off with him without a second look. To me, cheating is just not purely physical, it seemed there are a lot that plays into it.
When you cheat you not only destroy the love of that person, but you took away something that is just as meaningful and that is trust. Trust is something that you can't have back no matter what...it's like a broken glass, you try to patch it up, glue it back, puzzled it into place but it will never be wholesome.
I can't imagine my husband sleeping with another girl and me giving him high five and call it a day. I could never look at him the same way and I would lose all respect for him. I can tolerate a lot of stuff but for the cheating, it's one thing I can't seem to overlook. I don't know, I always wonder this...when someone takes back a cheater how do you sleep with that person and not have it in your head...that he has done this to another girl behind your back. Honestly, I am not mentally strong enough to get past that.