Hmmmm....Sarn, for some reason I didn't think about it. Now that you mentioned it, he loves his wife but just lusted after the cousin. He would not leave his wife because he has a lot to lose in that department. But you can still see the want in his eyes when he looks at the cousin.
That is really totally selfish. He should just leave the marriage and pursue his own happiness. As long as he is around the cousin he is going to have images of her in his mind and to a certain extend think about her so why torture himself over it? I know that he knows it would not work no matter how much he wants it. But him lusting is hurting his wife that he says he loves and himself because he's really not completely happy with his relationship.
Men with responsibilities and restraint puts his family happiness before his? But how can it be happiness for the wife when she isn't happy because she knows he lusting after someone else. Men that wants another should really leave the relationship they are in and start fresh with whomever they want. I feel they just string the person around until one day they have the courage or nerve to do what they set out to do in the beginning. And that is such a selfish act...because who knows how long he'll really wake up and say...I like the other person better...so goodbye. For the wife, that is unfair, it might take years for him to end it.
That is really totally selfish. He should just leave the marriage and pursue his own happiness. As long as he is around the cousin he is going to have images of her in his mind and to a certain extend think about her so why torture himself over it? I know that he knows it would not work no matter how much he wants it. But him lusting is hurting his wife that he says he loves and himself because he's really not completely happy with his relationship.
Men with responsibilities and restraint puts his family happiness before his? But how can it be happiness for the wife when she isn't happy because she knows he lusting after someone else. Men that wants another should really leave the relationship they are in and start fresh with whomever they want. I feel they just string the person around until one day they have the courage or nerve to do what they set out to do in the beginning. And that is such a selfish act...because who knows how long he'll really wake up and say...I like the other person better...so goodbye. For the wife, that is unfair, it might take years for him to end it.