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Heartless
AHHH okay let me add one more IMPORTANT information here... please please please get 2nd opinions on any medical stuff.
my colleague, the one i've mentioned earlier... she went to see her "assigned" doctor for her pregnancy because she had some complications becoming pregnant... but anyway, she went to see this doctor after she's been pregnant for 6 weeks, the critical times, during this 6 week, she's been in and out of the clinics almost every week... and when they went to do an ultrasound and see the heart beat... the ultrasound didn't show anything because she was too early in her pregnancy and the doctor didn't hear the heart beat of the child in her stomach. he said I THINK YOU MIGHT HAVE HAD A MISCARRIAGE!!!! omg... can't imagine how awful that feeling is, i've even almost cried when she was telling me this... this was the time she still had the thought of having a dead fetus in her body because she didn't want to believe in it but had doubts of it. she asked the doctor, is it possible that it's too early? he said, no, at this point we should hear the heart beating... and we both work for doctors, she's asked everyone and they said IT'S TOO EARLY. so everyone convinced her to NOT abort this baby since she's worked sooooo hard to conceive, to hold on for a week or a couple of weeks to go back for another ultrasound... if not, just go to another clinic and get an ultrasound... and that's what she did, she went to another place, a hospital for women and infants', and they heard the heart beating just fine. so please, get second opinions if any doctor tells you something negative. second, third, forth or fifth opinions are always better than the 1 that might not be exactly the way it's being delivered to u. this isn't just for pregnancy, but for all health related stuff... but since this has happened to someone i know, i guess i just wanted to share.
my colleague, the one i've mentioned earlier... she went to see her "assigned" doctor for her pregnancy because she had some complications becoming pregnant... but anyway, she went to see this doctor after she's been pregnant for 6 weeks, the critical times, during this 6 week, she's been in and out of the clinics almost every week... and when they went to do an ultrasound and see the heart beat... the ultrasound didn't show anything because she was too early in her pregnancy and the doctor didn't hear the heart beat of the child in her stomach. he said I THINK YOU MIGHT HAVE HAD A MISCARRIAGE!!!! omg... can't imagine how awful that feeling is, i've even almost cried when she was telling me this... this was the time she still had the thought of having a dead fetus in her body because she didn't want to believe in it but had doubts of it. she asked the doctor, is it possible that it's too early? he said, no, at this point we should hear the heart beating... and we both work for doctors, she's asked everyone and they said IT'S TOO EARLY. so everyone convinced her to NOT abort this baby since she's worked sooooo hard to conceive, to hold on for a week or a couple of weeks to go back for another ultrasound... if not, just go to another clinic and get an ultrasound... and that's what she did, she went to another place, a hospital for women and infants', and they heard the heart beating just fine. so please, get second opinions if any doctor tells you something negative. second, third, forth or fifth opinions are always better than the 1 that might not be exactly the way it's being delivered to u. this isn't just for pregnancy, but for all health related stuff... but since this has happened to someone i know, i guess i just wanted to share.