hey you guys,
I hate people who say that they don't like people that go around talking shit about other people and they are the one who are doing it. Manh!!!! my life heka suck!!!! my husband's oldest sis-in-law is a B!!!!!! Since I married into this family, I took care of his parents, niece, and nephew every freaken day because my husband wanted me too. I could not go to work or school. Every day in my first year of marriage, I cooked, clean, and took care of the two lilo kids. My sis-in-law went to school and work and I was the only one at home doing everything for the whole family. She gets new clothes, dresses all nice, and always go shopping not telling anyone. She be saying that she has no time to do anything and thst she was stressing out. I felt bad for her and always packed food for her and her brother that came to stay with her family which she tried hiding from the family. She is 32 and I am only 22. I loved her soo much because she was older and she always said that she is nice and etc. I was new so I did not know any better by loving her and her family and always respecting her. SHe told me about my family-in-law that they are like this and that and I believed her because she was nice to me. She told me how mean my husband's sisters were and etc.
She always say that I do too much around the house and etc and that she doesn't even do it like me. My mother-law's health was bad so her family always came over everyday to stay with us until late at night. I always had to cook for her family(7 peepz) and mine(7) every night. The family had soo many guests that came to visist and they would stay for days. I had to wake up super early to cook for them and my in-laws because I was the only daughter-in-law home. I was pregnant and still did all these things.
My father-in-law got really sick at the end of last year and I wasn't even married for a year yet. He passed away in January of this year and I was 8mons pregnant. It was the hardest time of my life because the whole family had to do soo much including me and I was also due. I gave birth to my son a week after we buried my-father-in-law.
My sis-in-law started treating me bad by saying all these stupid words to me and it hurted me but I did not say anything. she be saying those stupid words that old hmong people try to say to people to hurt them to see if they know. you guys know those stupid metaphor words they al2ways say and imply to people. Well...my sis-in-law was like that. She would say it to her kids infront of me and they are little like5 and 2. Hello just because you are older and I am younger I am not that stupid. I have a heart , feelings and eat like u too. I respect her soo much and I could not believe she was doing this to me. I trid to avoid her but was still nice to her and talk to her.
After my father-in-passed away, she approached me at the kitchen table and said that she had all my father's luck. I did not know what to say because I could not believe she would say that. I just said zI don't care becauswe if you work your ass for someone and they don't care or see it or love you they give it to you or not who cares because they could give it to some who does nothing and they give it to them I don't care. she quit her job when my father-in-law got really sick to take care of my mother-in-law and him and gets paid for from the gpovernment because she thought they were going to pay her more but but he passed away. So now she takes care of my mother. She only comes for like an hour or 2 then leave then come back later to cook then leave again. I had to watch my mom and could not go anywhere.
She had the freaken nerd to say to me that shes the only one who took care of my mom and does things around the house. I did not say anything but I was mad. I kept it low. Then she said that she will not take care of anyones kids if its not her kids because she's not their mom or grandma. I was thinking??? okay why are you telling me this? I did not even ask you to take care of my son. She is soo freaken evil that she took my mom and her two youngest kids out to eat without letting me know where they were going. She saw me, did not look at me, had a black on, and then I went into the bathroom, came out she took everyone out to eat. The next day, my mom gave me 3hundrds to go buy food and that was the first time. I was surprised because me and my husband bought food for two family all the time and no one helped out even my siter in law. They always eat at our place. I ask my sis-in-law if she could watch my son for a lilo bit so that I can go food shopping and she said yes. When I came back, her face was sooo mad and angry. she took her whole family home and did not stay for dinner. The next day, she took my mom for her check-up, her lilo daughter came running to me and said
" auntie, my mom toold grandma that you don't like her"
I was so shocked and did not believe her. I said to her that she was lying and she said no I am not. I told her that I was going to ask her mom and she said' go ahead". I did not go but I was hurt and mad alreday. That weekend, all the relatives had to do this hmong party, and we all had to go. I meet my other sis-in-law there that lives far from us. She told me that her friend told her that our oldest sis-in-law went to the relatives and talked shit about us that we are lazy and etc. Her friend's aunt told her sister and she tols her. Their aunt is also married into our family that is why. I felt sooo hurt and mad that I could not even look at her or have respect for her anymore. After all thses, my husband's youngest sister told me what she had been saying behind my back. She also said that she told her husband that I did not like his mom so now her husband don't like anyone too. Her daughter also said that she used to say bad things about me but my youngest sis did not want tell me. I stop talking to my sis-in-law after that because she kept on saying metaphor words in hmong implying it to me. I just don't look at her anymore. When I wasn't home she talked soo much shit about me to her kids, mom and my husband's youngest bro and sis. They tell me all thses stuff but I still kept it low by not saying anything.
I tried to be nice and askend about mom to see if she was better. We were just saying about how mom is losing her mind. That B had the nerve to start saying to me that don't get mad or offended and then I say ok say it. She started saying She doesn'y know if she needs me or I need her in the future so whatever we have, we should talk about it. I said to her that when I love someone, i love them with all my heart and will not go around talking shit about them and i ever hear from someone that they talk shit about me then I will not love them anyone and they will have no rifght to be mad. She started to say that for the last couple of days, I have been disrespecting her as the oldest and I kind of blow off. She even said that mom likes her mom. I told her that she is the one whos suppose to take care of mom so just take care of and don't worry about me. I have hands and legs. I will take crae of myself. I also said that I hate people who say that they don't like people talking behind them but theey are the one who is doing it because she said to me in the past that she does not like people talking shit about people. She was like you are implying it to me. I said "sis-in-I did not say its you. I did not put your name int it and said you did this and that to me. She still said u are implying it to me because your face is all red and your voice is high now and saying You already promise me not to get mad. I was soo mad because I did not say to her that O promise her or put my hand in the air and promise her. She kept on saying that I am implying it to her so I said well if you think that then maybe you must had said something about me. She was like if you have something say it to my husband to come to say it to me and if i have something i will go to ur husband and started saying you have a problem lets talk about it. I was like no, I don't see any problems what problem are u talking about. She ketp on saying talk to my husband so I go mad and said fine! She was like I am going to go get your husband. I hate some old hmong people. Even if they are the wrong one, they act all quiet and say everything smooth to make you look like you are the bad one. She knows that I am young so I will get loud because youth these days are not fake like them. I hate her freaken husband because he is on her side not seeing her evilness. I used to respect them both soo much and now I see that they are not wortth my love and respect. My husband sees it but just told me to be nice and patience because i am young and that i will get loud so old people will not believe and just think i am the bad one. After the fight her sister wrote me a letter saying soory for what her mom did to me and she that her is a bitch and she thinks she is the most bneautiful woman on earth. My sis-in-law does think that. She a;lways talk about how pretty and pwerfect she is but we all just never say anything and i am happy her own daugther sees it. If I was the bad one, why did her oen daughter that came out from her S_ _ _ wrote me a letter saying soory. After all these my husband made me say sorry just to look nice and she said the same. She still talks shit about me and people in the house tell me!!!! I can not believe how evil she is. She is over 30 and is acting like a lilo kid and look at me, I am only 22 and is not even like her. In the future when I move out I will never come see her or care about her and will do nothiung for her because of all my lkove and hard work she stpe all over me.
I hate now that her family is living with us tight now in the same house. I am soo mad because they have their own freaken house. RThey are eating up all our food and not even buying any. They holds all my in-laws money and etc and is sooo evil they kept everything and is taking advantage of all the younger ones. I hope goid will see it. I hate her to death!!!! What should I do you guys!!!!! I am going crazy!!!!! I have never complain about doiing everything and look at her just taking care of mom for 5-6mons now and is already complainging!!!!!!!!! I am soooooo crazy and mad now!!!!!!! Pease help me with advices
I hate people who say that they don't like people that go around talking shit about other people and they are the one who are doing it. Manh!!!! my life heka suck!!!! my husband's oldest sis-in-law is a B!!!!!! Since I married into this family, I took care of his parents, niece, and nephew every freaken day because my husband wanted me too. I could not go to work or school. Every day in my first year of marriage, I cooked, clean, and took care of the two lilo kids. My sis-in-law went to school and work and I was the only one at home doing everything for the whole family. She gets new clothes, dresses all nice, and always go shopping not telling anyone. She be saying that she has no time to do anything and thst she was stressing out. I felt bad for her and always packed food for her and her brother that came to stay with her family which she tried hiding from the family. She is 32 and I am only 22. I loved her soo much because she was older and she always said that she is nice and etc. I was new so I did not know any better by loving her and her family and always respecting her. SHe told me about my family-in-law that they are like this and that and I believed her because she was nice to me. She told me how mean my husband's sisters were and etc.
She always say that I do too much around the house and etc and that she doesn't even do it like me. My mother-law's health was bad so her family always came over everyday to stay with us until late at night. I always had to cook for her family(7 peepz) and mine(7) every night. The family had soo many guests that came to visist and they would stay for days. I had to wake up super early to cook for them and my in-laws because I was the only daughter-in-law home. I was pregnant and still did all these things.
My father-in-law got really sick at the end of last year and I wasn't even married for a year yet. He passed away in January of this year and I was 8mons pregnant. It was the hardest time of my life because the whole family had to do soo much including me and I was also due. I gave birth to my son a week after we buried my-father-in-law.
My sis-in-law started treating me bad by saying all these stupid words to me and it hurted me but I did not say anything. she be saying those stupid words that old hmong people try to say to people to hurt them to see if they know. you guys know those stupid metaphor words they al2ways say and imply to people. Well...my sis-in-law was like that. She would say it to her kids infront of me and they are little like5 and 2. Hello just because you are older and I am younger I am not that stupid. I have a heart , feelings and eat like u too. I respect her soo much and I could not believe she was doing this to me. I trid to avoid her but was still nice to her and talk to her.
After my father-in-passed away, she approached me at the kitchen table and said that she had all my father's luck. I did not know what to say because I could not believe she would say that. I just said zI don't care becauswe if you work your ass for someone and they don't care or see it or love you they give it to you or not who cares because they could give it to some who does nothing and they give it to them I don't care. she quit her job when my father-in-law got really sick to take care of my mother-in-law and him and gets paid for from the gpovernment because she thought they were going to pay her more but but he passed away. So now she takes care of my mother. She only comes for like an hour or 2 then leave then come back later to cook then leave again. I had to watch my mom and could not go anywhere.
She had the freaken nerd to say to me that shes the only one who took care of my mom and does things around the house. I did not say anything but I was mad. I kept it low. Then she said that she will not take care of anyones kids if its not her kids because she's not their mom or grandma. I was thinking??? okay why are you telling me this? I did not even ask you to take care of my son. She is soo freaken evil that she took my mom and her two youngest kids out to eat without letting me know where they were going. She saw me, did not look at me, had a black on, and then I went into the bathroom, came out she took everyone out to eat. The next day, my mom gave me 3hundrds to go buy food and that was the first time. I was surprised because me and my husband bought food for two family all the time and no one helped out even my siter in law. They always eat at our place. I ask my sis-in-law if she could watch my son for a lilo bit so that I can go food shopping and she said yes. When I came back, her face was sooo mad and angry. she took her whole family home and did not stay for dinner. The next day, she took my mom for her check-up, her lilo daughter came running to me and said
" auntie, my mom toold grandma that you don't like her"
I was so shocked and did not believe her. I said to her that she was lying and she said no I am not. I told her that I was going to ask her mom and she said' go ahead". I did not go but I was hurt and mad alreday. That weekend, all the relatives had to do this hmong party, and we all had to go. I meet my other sis-in-law there that lives far from us. She told me that her friend told her that our oldest sis-in-law went to the relatives and talked shit about us that we are lazy and etc. Her friend's aunt told her sister and she tols her. Their aunt is also married into our family that is why. I felt sooo hurt and mad that I could not even look at her or have respect for her anymore. After all thses, my husband's youngest sister told me what she had been saying behind my back. She also said that she told her husband that I did not like his mom so now her husband don't like anyone too. Her daughter also said that she used to say bad things about me but my youngest sis did not want tell me. I stop talking to my sis-in-law after that because she kept on saying metaphor words in hmong implying it to me. I just don't look at her anymore. When I wasn't home she talked soo much shit about me to her kids, mom and my husband's youngest bro and sis. They tell me all thses stuff but I still kept it low by not saying anything.
I tried to be nice and askend about mom to see if she was better. We were just saying about how mom is losing her mind. That B had the nerve to start saying to me that don't get mad or offended and then I say ok say it. She started saying She doesn'y know if she needs me or I need her in the future so whatever we have, we should talk about it. I said to her that when I love someone, i love them with all my heart and will not go around talking shit about them and i ever hear from someone that they talk shit about me then I will not love them anyone and they will have no rifght to be mad. She started to say that for the last couple of days, I have been disrespecting her as the oldest and I kind of blow off. She even said that mom likes her mom. I told her that she is the one whos suppose to take care of mom so just take care of and don't worry about me. I have hands and legs. I will take crae of myself. I also said that I hate people who say that they don't like people talking behind them but theey are the one who is doing it because she said to me in the past that she does not like people talking shit about people. She was like you are implying it to me. I said "sis-in-I did not say its you. I did not put your name int it and said you did this and that to me. She still said u are implying it to me because your face is all red and your voice is high now and saying You already promise me not to get mad. I was soo mad because I did not say to her that O promise her or put my hand in the air and promise her. She kept on saying that I am implying it to her so I said well if you think that then maybe you must had said something about me. She was like if you have something say it to my husband to come to say it to me and if i have something i will go to ur husband and started saying you have a problem lets talk about it. I was like no, I don't see any problems what problem are u talking about. She ketp on saying talk to my husband so I go mad and said fine! She was like I am going to go get your husband. I hate some old hmong people. Even if they are the wrong one, they act all quiet and say everything smooth to make you look like you are the bad one. She knows that I am young so I will get loud because youth these days are not fake like them. I hate her freaken husband because he is on her side not seeing her evilness. I used to respect them both soo much and now I see that they are not wortth my love and respect. My husband sees it but just told me to be nice and patience because i am young and that i will get loud so old people will not believe and just think i am the bad one. After the fight her sister wrote me a letter saying soory for what her mom did to me and she that her is a bitch and she thinks she is the most bneautiful woman on earth. My sis-in-law does think that. She a;lways talk about how pretty and pwerfect she is but we all just never say anything and i am happy her own daugther sees it. If I was the bad one, why did her oen daughter that came out from her S_ _ _ wrote me a letter saying soory. After all these my husband made me say sorry just to look nice and she said the same. She still talks shit about me and people in the house tell me!!!! I can not believe how evil she is. She is over 30 and is acting like a lilo kid and look at me, I am only 22 and is not even like her. In the future when I move out I will never come see her or care about her and will do nothiung for her because of all my lkove and hard work she stpe all over me.
I hate now that her family is living with us tight now in the same house. I am soo mad because they have their own freaken house. RThey are eating up all our food and not even buying any. They holds all my in-laws money and etc and is sooo evil they kept everything and is taking advantage of all the younger ones. I hope goid will see it. I hate her to death!!!! What should I do you guys!!!!! I am going crazy!!!!! I have never complain about doiing everything and look at her just taking care of mom for 5-6mons now and is already complainging!!!!!!!!! I am soooooo crazy and mad now!!!!!!! Pease help me with advices
