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Falada
Falada
Because seriously, I'm about to give up. But then why do I feel so guilty when I always do my best to help?!!! It's so unfair!
Ms.Zoe
Ms.Zoe
Don't feel so guilty, you have tried/are trying your best to help these people. It is up to them to help themselves at the end. They are lucky that they got help from you, if they don't care about your help and don't use your help to help themselves then I think you should stop & hopefully they will see your help are worthy and will change :).
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Ms.Zoe
Ms.Zoe
In the mean time you could help others who care about your help & use your help to help themselves. My motto " I can't help you if you can not help yourself " :).
"peace"
"peace"
you do what you are convinced of , if you see that you can still help them and if you care for them then continue doing it and i advice you never have expectation of people to appreciate always give from your heart not because you want them to see but because you want to do something meaningful for yourself
"peace"
"peace"
so don't regret and don't be discouraged helping people even the ones that don't see it is a value for yourself but always do it with heart if you feel you don't want to do it anymore then better don't continue , wish you luck
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Falada
Falada
@Ms.Zoe @"peace" Thanks for the tips. I am really helping from the heart, and just want to help. But lately, I'm really exhausted because of this, more than anything else. But I feel that if I stop, I have failed them and myself. :(
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PrincessKarina
I was taught to help everyone (of course there are exceptions at times). Help with a pure heart and with the right intention. If people do not see your help as meaningful then it is time to move on. Try your best and don't feel guilty when you gave it your all! You will be bless for your part and there will be plenty of decent people who will view your care and love as worthy! I pray the best for you girl!
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PrincessKarina
I think I remember you said you are 17 or maybe I saw that on your profile but you still have plenty of time to grow! As you age you will learn to be stronger through all your experiences and life's tribulations! You will learn to stand up for yourself and not allow anyone to disrespect you. We shouldn't always look at our struggles and miseries as karma but learn something from them and grow!
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Falada
Falada
LOL yeah, I know I'm still young, but I felt so old with so many obligations. And thanks for your words, I'll keep them in mind. :)
Ms.Zoe
Ms.Zoe
Please don't feel that if you stop, you have failed yourself & them when you have done/are doing all you can from the heart. Sometimes some things are out of our control even if we had done our best. I believe we didn't fail when we had gave it our best.
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