dating younger guys???

roselovesice

방탄소년단 x Bangtan Sonyeondan x JiTaew
Oh gosh. Talk about dating younger guys. lol I remember always telling people and myself that I will never date a younger guy. Just to clarify, I'm not in a relationship or anything right now either. lol I've always liked guys older than me, never younger than me even if he was just one day younger. The guy I currently like is about 6-7 months older than me, but he's still considered a year older than me since he was born a year before me. Now, there's this other guy I just met recently. We had class together and were put together in a group. I talk to him more than I talk to the other 2 girl in our group. Anyways, as the days went by I realized how different this guy is from the one I liked. He was pretty much everything I wanted in a man, while the one I liked was no where my dream man. He did make me realize a lot of things about myself and my perspective on love/relationship. I'm a picky person by the way. Well, I was and somewhat still is. lol Even though the younger guy that I liked is 2-3 years younger than me, he was so mature for his age. Marco, on the other hand, isn't that mature considering he's a bit older than me. It was a struggle liking this guy who lived on the other side of the world while being smitten by this other guy I see every other day. My point is, if you haven't date a younger guy before, don't ever say that you won't because anything can happen. Never in my life had I ever expect to like a guy younger than me, which happened. Of course both are single, which makes it even harder. Hahah! Just kidding. One has a crush on this other girl that is seeing this other guy, and the other one just got dumped a few months ago. Dang. I'll never get my chance. LOL
 
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sarNie OldFart
I for some reason, just doesn't find younger men attractive no matter how attractive they are (if that makes any sense) Even growing up, I was never find my way toward a younger guy, they seemed to lack something that I want. I want a guy just old enough to have some life experienced but young enough to change his ways. Because some older men are so set in their darn ways that it's like moving a mountain to get them to change anything about themselves. I guess, I don't quite get the boyish charm...I like the maturity of a man's look.
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
Here the thing , housewife of Asianfuse.net , the reason you are not attractive to younger man b/c *drum roll* ......you do not have a wilder side & you love your comfort zone HAHAHA . Why do cougar prey on young man ? b/c when you got yourself a young grass it boost up her confidence , make her felt youthful & you get to brag to your friend lol ---
 

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sarNie OldFart
Hahhaha....Sarn

Though you are correct. I am set in my ways and just comfortable where I am at. Hmmmm...my wild side goes as far as getting drunk and flirting a bit then I get sleepy lol.

I can't even find the guys the same age as me attractive. Maybe when I am in my 60s or something lol...when I can barely walk and the old then maybe just maybe a cute little thing will remind of how beautiful being youthful really is hahahah
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
Another thing , young attractive man are scary to approach b/c we older woman do have the disadvantage & the thought younger woman will snatch him away someday does make one caution to even consider of flirting w/ one & 9 out of 10 they already taken anyway , rejection is our most fear . Now, if you have a wilder side , meaning to take risk , you could win him b/c young man is all about aftering for the "experience" *wink* . That why , I know you like to play it safe , in the comfort zone , block your mind & thought to even find one attractive . too dangerous lol
 

VILLNAN

sarNie OldFart
Haha No please... I love old men lol I meant someone 3/4 years older than me. :p:p
 

GueSs

TyziR
I am 5 years younger than my lady. We been together for a very long time. I was basically coming out of high school when we met. I had to grow up fast with my childhood and paid for the things I needed myself. If you're looking for a relationship with a younger guy make sure he's ready and he's not some guy that just wants to live off you cause you're older and established. I usually compare my relationship with her to her sisters (6 year gap) relationship with the father her children. I paid bills in high school, had a job, etc. He was in high school, no job, loved to party and she had to give him gas and lunch money. If I had a hundred dollars for a date I spend it in my lady. Her sister baby daddy if he had a hundred dollars for a date he would buy 75 worth of pot and take her to Mc'Donald's (true story she said, it was their first date, she knew how to pick em)

They broke up, we're still together.

Basically if you're looking to settle don't get a ghetto one who mooches off you. A baby even two babies won't change him. If you're interested in a younger guy make sure he's mature enough to take care of you. Remember boys in high school can get jobs too.
 

Maricon

sarNie Oldmaid
Never experienced dating/being in a relationship but I won't mind dating younger guys as long as the guy is not waaaay younger than me. 2 years younger is the maximum for me
My college crush is 4 months younger than me and we are friends too. He's mature despite being younger than me so why not lol :D
 

maimyang

keep on keepin’ on. ✨
Oh man I've had like wayyyy younger (for me anyway) guys like 7 years apart talk to me. Later on realized that some of them are in it for the fun and don't really know what they want yet, which is super frustrating for me.
 
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PrincessKarina

I am one who always dated younger boys. For one I always looked younger than my age so only the younger boys hit on me! Lol! The youngest I dated he was 3 years younger than me. It was kind of weird but during that time we looked around the same age! As I aged I realize that younger boys aren't up to our level so I dropped them dead! Today my lover is almost 10 years older than me. He is stable in many stages in life and you can say I'm "almost" up to his level. Lol. Which is also bizarre because it has always been the "boys" almost up to my level! The table has turned. Lol.
 
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