hmong girls/ guys over sea stories

cecilia

Staff member
wow .. what an awesome conversation in here .. mmmm, i feel your thoughts however, i just ignore it and do shopping with my younger sibling who shared the same view as me. Anyway, don't marry just b/c you feel like you have too .. My age is close to you and i'm still here, working hard, trying to open up my own business and trying to live the dream i hope to have. I feel it is better to get out of that uncomfortable feeling and move on to create some comfort in your life instead of seeking out for trouble. I don't know .. i understand guy from oversea are educated too but there's just something there that can't be trust regardless of how trusting they sounds. Like you, sometime i wonder is it b/c of my past life that's why i'm stuck in this kind of atmosphere too. However, i still stood tall and walk forward .. i think considering of how society are at the moment, it's better to be alone -- supporting yourself and your family, waiting for that one man to come into your life. I'm at the point where marriage is out of the question -- i just want to do all the things i want to do, live the life i dream to have and if love comes, i'll take it and if not then it's okay. Sometime, living alone is better than having someone there to be obligated too. Marriage life isn't all that great (witnessing sibling & their spouse issues - mother in law, partying, hanging out with friend too much - mishandling children, neither want to look after the kids lol) too much!
 

population1

sarNie Egg
Sure thing then, it shouldn't hurt someone like you to be the sole provider and care taker even for a Hmong man you would involuntarily consider to take under your wings.
 

AsianFemale

Mrs. Kim Junsu
Ummm sorry but I wouldn't want to married to somebody that' are from Thailand, Laos, china and Japan that just not my taste. They might have high education in their country but not here. Once they get to usa you still have to babysit and feed them that's a big no no Pwww forget that. No credit, no car, no money and job. Good luck with that.
 

mmm0403

sarNie Juvenile
For me, if it's money, then I won't even bother about the whole marriage thing. I can support myself just fin since I really have no interst in guys or marriage. Before I even want to get married, he has to be thoughtful, caring, intelligent, and listens when I'm talking to him. Finally, he has to have some talents that I don't have. I can't play any music instruments or sing, so it's easy for me to be attracted to someone who can. It doesn't matter if he's poor. A poor man and a lazy man are too different kinds of men. A poor man may be poor but it doesn't mean that he's lazy. He might help you clean the house, take care of the kids, cook, take the garbage, dust the house, feed you, lol, etc... A guy with a stable job may have a job but it doesn't mean that he will give you a dime when you marry him or anything else around the house, etc...
 

pualuv

sarNie Egg
For me, if it's money, then I won't even bother about the whole marriage thing. I can support myself just fin since I really have no interst in guys or marriage. Before I even want to get married, he has to be thoughtful, caring, intelligent, and listens when I'm talking to him. Finally, he has to have some talents that I don't have. I can't play any music instruments or sing, so it's easy for me to be attracted to someone who can. It doesn't matter if he's poor. A poor man and a lazy man are too different kinds of men. A poor man may be poor but it doesn't mean that he's lazy. He might help you clean the house, take care of the kids, cook, take the garbage, dust the house, feed you, lol, etc... A guy with a stable job may have a job but it doesn't mean that he will give you a dime when you marry him or anything else around the house, etc...
Wow I really like that thinking.. hahah I never saw it like that before, but I guess it's true.. :)
 

vanggirlie

sarNie Egg
mmm0403, I toatally agree with you. Lol plus those guys over there know how to do house chores and cook. Are you going this year? I thought I was but I'm not sure anymore
 

mmm0403

sarNie Juvenile
mmm0403, I toatally agree with you. Lol plus those guys over there know how to do house chores and cook. Are you going this year? I thought I was but I'm not sure anymore
Not sure if you are asking me or not but I'll answer anyway. I did and came back from Thailand. Man, it sure was an experience for me.
First, I missed my flight in Chicago because of some confusion that I went and waited at the wrong airline. To make it worse, Asiana Airlines was such a small airline that they totally left the airport. I spent four hours calling and talking with the agent that I bought my ticket from and the asiana airlines representatives.
So, I had to stay in Chicago two days. Hotel wasn't cheap. I ended up spending almost $300 for the two nights in chicago. Then the airline charged me almost $300 for rescheduling. I was like sure charge me as long as I got to continue my flight.

There were many Hmong old ladies going to Thailand too.

When I arrived in Thailand. The officer at the immigration gate was so mean. He harshyly said I had to put down an address where i was gonna stay for the night. Unfortunately, I didn't reserve one before I went. I learned my lesson--always reserve a hotel or have an address at the country where you traveling to.

I was so nervous. Luckily, there was this young Thai girl that worked closely at the immigration gate who could speak English. I asked her what I could do to pass the gate. She was nice enough to tell me to put a hotel name--an address is not neccessary. You just have to put a hote name or some kind of address on that form. God--I thought I was gonna end up walking around the airport all night.

Another hardship that I ran into was on my way back from South Korea to chicago. On my way boarding into the plane, a young girl that checked passport and ticket saw my passport photo and was suspected that I might be using someone's else passport since the girl in the photo didn't look like me--it was me that I took almost nine years ago when I was chubby. I don't blame them, because I don't recognize me either.
The young Korean girl asked another girl to help her look at my passport picture to confirm. I had enough so I showed them my driver license which was more recent--my picture looked more like me.

It didn't seem like they were convinced.
If I'm gonna travel abroad again next year, I will definitely renew my passport with a new picture.

There were two Hmong girls flying with me too, which I didn't talk with them. One girl was a bride from either Laos or Thailand. When I arrived in home in my home state airport, her new husband and some people were there. They were talking about this and that... The husband was about 40, not attractive at all while the girl was quite pretty. What the heck!

Anyway...it's not just old Asian guys go to Thailand and Laos to hook up with young girls. While I was in the Bangkok area, I saw many old white guys hooking up with young Thai girls, young enough to be their daughters/grand-daughters.
 

vanggirlie

sarNie Egg
Lol when I went last year to Laos, I went thru Vietnam and they had to take a second look to make sure I was me on the passport. It was a 10 year old passport so i looked prettier then I do now. I hate going thru Thailand airport to Laos. The first year I went they charged all Hmong $50 per person if we wanted to go from Thailand to Laos but they didn't charge the Laotian-Americans tho. I'm pretty sure thailand and Laos are prejudice to Hmong people.

I'm sorry you had a bad time in Chicago. Omg I hate chicago's airport. Anyone can get lost and no one is friendly. I've gone to Laos twice and love Koreanair airline tho. Plus you wont get lost in there airport and they are nice and helps when you ask for it. well maybe your case was an exception.

You came back before the new year? I bet all the Hmong OGs are going to Laos now.
 

mmm0403

sarNie Juvenile
Yeah...Ohare International Airport sucks. It's big and confusing.
After Chicago, it's easy to find the other airports. At the South Korea Internation Airport, one of the restrooms that I used, was so different--quite nice and different and pretty.

My fligh+taxes = about $1100 (if you add $250 that they charged me again for missing my flight, it will be more), excluding hotels. I recommend if you are going to stay in hotels in Bangkok, stay in those 1000 baht/night or more. The hotels in Chiangmai are cheaper.
 

vanggirlie

sarNie Egg
That's so much cheaper then now. The flights to Laos are $1700 roundtrip. I haven't decided whether I'll go or not. Late November I will decide. Was there any flooding in Thailand when you were coming back. I'll prob go thru Korea and bangkok if I go
 

mmm0403

sarNie Juvenile
Going to Laos directly will probably cost a lot of probably no flights available. Yep, it was flooded up North. I took a bus to Chiang Mai from Bangkok, and everywhere was flooded. Luckily, I came back before the city was also flooded. I should have gone with someone. I was so bored in Bangkok.
 

vanggirlie

sarNie Egg
Lol us girls on here should have gone to Thailand and Laos together. It is boring going by yourself but luckily I have a some family and a special friend in Laos to keep me busy if I go.
 
My cousin's 15 year old wife arrives tomorrow... sigh... oh wells... it took him a year to get her here... he's 36 and single... we all tell him that the way he acts is awful and no girl would want him... a brotherly sisterly chat and he is never gonna change so he went to pick up a chick from Laos... Before they got married, she lied to him that she was 16 or 17 so my cousin believed and married her. After the marriage, she confessed that she was only 14 and wouldnt let him consumate the marriage officially. That night instead of staying with us at uncle;s house she was crying and took off in the dark back to her house... seriously... since then, i didnt really care for her nor so i see her as a decent sis-in-law... seems like its fishy... but oh wells...
 
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